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LOL! The manifest mysteries of the rabbit hole female pudenda and it's tar baby contracts have become widespread by social media. I'm not aware that boomers ever had such information bounties, so they were easy prey.

Widespread, I made a funny. Mostly non-spread until you cough up.

I have a twice married twice divorced older friend who says "I still have one more romance in me". He adopts homeless lesbians to stay in his home, so his aim isn't that great, but what he wants is the temporary oxytocin intoxication for a few months and doesn't care about the train wreck around the pike.

Anyone that has been married 3x has no business giving any marital advice. Anyone divorced shouldn't either.

I believe divorces should be hard to get, and being butt hurt at your spouse, because the romance is gone, shouldn't be a valid reason.
Also infidelity should not be grounds, unless the one party was still a willing faithful partner. If one partner is withholding sex, then it should not be a reason.
Also of course any violence and abuse should still be grounds.
If a couple grows tired of each other, but don't have any legal reason to divorce, then they can separate forever married until one dies.
That way the damn fool doesn't go and marry again only to repeat the same mistake. Also wicked step moms wont get children's inheritance. Which happens so damn often. Some floosie can meet someone be married, and the guy die of a heart attack all in the span of 3 months, then inherit millions that should have gone to his adult kids, or siblings, as often the older child may have inherited heirlooms meant to be passed down to his siblings when a parent dies.
If divorces weren't turnstiles then I don't know if less people would get married. But perhaps they would take it more serious and not some reckless gamble that they can always get annulled with a good lawyer.

Come to think of it, it's those that has been married more than once that is the most vocal about how shitty being married is.
Those married for 25+ years, knows it's not being married that sucks, it's the getting older and having different tastes and goals.
The challenge then becomes navigating those tastes and goals around her taste and goals without colliding.
When you're young and starting out. She will sit and read on the couch with a big smile, while you rebuild a 65 Panhead on your living room floor.
Somehow along the way, they go from that to nagging about every crumb you left on the kitchen counter.

Tenpoundbass says

Come to think of it, it's those that has been married more than once that is the most vocal about how shitty being married is.
Those married for 25+ years, knows it's not being married that sucks, it's the getting older and having different tastes and goals.
The challenge then becomes navigating those tastes and goals around her taste and goals without colliding.
When you're young and starting out. She will sit and read on the couch with a big smile, while you rebuild a 65 Panhead on your living room floor.
Somehow along the way, they go from that to nagging about every crumb you left on the kitchen counter.

Pretty much right. 25 years deep myself. Maybe 26. At least from "dating" at the beginning. 15 when I first banged my wife. That stuff drops off but we still have fun. We'd drive down to the hill billy land @Ad in the Panhandle twice a year in college.... I'm giving you shit. I love the area. Either way the road head kept me awake many a times on 65 since we drove straight through.

Ugh, I miss the young years without kids. Fooling around on back roads hitting a triple or homer in the middle of no where or literally on the ground.

Make it tough to get married, and one very simple reform:

If you weren't abandoned (the person up and left), physically abused (no "He told me to shut up after I nagged him with 15 demands the moment he returned from work, so I was 'emotionally abused') with medical evidence (no using makeup to create a bruise, no "Believe the Woman"), or infidelity (Written or photo or self-confession needed)...

and you divorce, with "No Fault"...

you get two bags of clothes. The other person keeps the kids, house, car, pension, savings, etc.

That would stop at least half of divorces.

To make contested divorces fair, get rid of divorce court and have the same courts that do business contract disputes handle marriages. Get rid of the butch lesbian Family Courts.

AmericanKulak says

To make contested divorces fair, get rid of divorce court and have the same courts that do business contract disputes handle marriages. Get rid of the butch lesbian Family Courts.

It's really about not marrying a cunt. My wife and I have our fights. We're not perfect. Either of us. But we made an agreement and we have kids and even taken in other people's kid.

Sure we don't fuck like rabbits anymore. Still have fun, but this is life. We agreed to it. It's the whore women that destroy marriage and the guys that have zero remorse about fucking a married woman. Wait until they get divorced for fuck sake. From a guys stance what's the point unless she'll bail on the husband..... oh yeah, that's a real keeper. There are plenty of unmarried chicks to fuck. I'm no stallion, but have had many chances without trying to get laid. Dudes that break up marriages I stop talking to if I know them. Same with chicks. Don't get married.... simple stuff.

The cunt sometimes says hello later, actually quite often

I love an honest bad girl. The fake good girls are the problem. Unfortunately, women can win Academy Awards, because if you think back all the way to JHS, all they do is play "poor me, mean her" backstab games with each other. This continues in HS, College, and you're blinder than a bat if you haven't seen it happen in the workplace.