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Ya want to expand on this idea a little?
Sounds interesting.
It's really hard. One thing that sort of works for me - and I am no Master by any means - is to pick my battles. I say "no", if asked I give reasons, but the answer is still NO.
The first time Butler met Brodak, she was in jail. They’d connected over Facebook.
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She had waist-length hair, hazel-blue eyes, cherubic cheeks. They made a date.
Successful marriages are extremely rare; 56% + end in divorce, mostly initiated by the woman.
First marriages last better than subsequent marriages, on average.
Simple answer is to “marry better.” My wife works so I don’t have to. If there’s next life, I want to marry her again.
Agree to disagree. I’m a problem solver. I’m in the biz of making money by solving problem. I don’t blame on circumstances.
There's a solution: Repeal 19th and no-fault divorce. And especially welfare for single hos.
There is one and maybe just one idea in Mexico which would be useful to adpot in the USA regarding marriage.
When you get married in Mexico you can select 1. community property rules apply 2. separate property rules apply.
#2 is called "bienes separados". You always own your shit and she can't claim ownership of it later when things go south.
I'm probably too vocal on this subject.
Eman says
Simple answer is to “marry better.” My wife works so I don’t have to. If there’s next life, I want to marry her again.
Disagree here.
Simple answer is to “marry better.” My wife works so I don’t have to. If there’s next life, I want to marry her again.
See how easy it is. We all have a choice. Why not make a choice to marry better?
Eman says
Simple answer is to “marry better.” My wife works so I don’t have to. If there’s next life, I want to marry her again.
See how easy it is. We all have a choice. Why not make a choice to marry better?
Cmon you stated you entered the RE business to never have to work full time again and it made you wealthy. How is your wife working then so you don't have to? It would seem you could pay all bills no matter what and then some anyways.
AmericanKulak says
Eman says
Simple answer is to “marry better.” My wife works so I don’t have to. If there’s next life, I want to marry her again.
Disagree here.
It's your right to disagree. I agree with you on a lot here, but this is patently false. You have a choice in who you agree to partner with. You're not forced. It's your choice and you have to own it. It's not difficult to tuck it or fuck it. Most guys take the fuck it route and get with shitty chicks.
My fall back chicks are all amazing women. Not losers. Keep their legs closed. I still talk to them and would never stray from my wife. It's not difficult to find a decent woman and be a decent dude. Sure you're looking for a 1 in 10 that's attractive and not a cunt, but they're easy to find if you don't let your dick get in the way.
She had to support me while I was making the transition. Someone had to bring home the bacon during those years.
Now, she works because it’s flexible and she can do whatever she wants while keeping the health benefits for the family. If her boss pisses her off, her boss can have her job back. It’s a great to be in a position of strength. 😂
The point is that if your wife decides she's done the "laws" will allow her to take you to the cleaners, unless she makes significantly more, in which case she will likely take the kids from you and have no legal problems with it.
Even if you have 'written agreements', it doesn't protect you from the rapacity of the legal process itself, or even necessarily the outcome. All it does is give you a gauge about how things might go once you are in the meat grinder. It doesn't avoid the meat grinder.
That's not the point. The point is that if your wife decides she's done the "laws" will allow her to take you to the cleaners, unless she makes significantly more, in which case she will likely take the kids from you and have no legal problems with it. Opportunity makes thieves. Also as much as I want to believe that some married perfect wives this never held true when I met them. Good if you're on that train though, wish it holds a lifetime ;) I'm still advocating marriage if you want kids, but there are huge tradeoffs people should be aware of.
My wife wouldn't (won't) get a dime from me. Most men become pussies in divorce. Not cut throat. Don't know law. Don't know their rights.
You are never 'protected' from lawyers (conflict tax collectors whose motive is to keep you in conflict), incessant lawfare, or crooked Kommie judges (apparently rampant in Family Law).
Guess how she feels now at 39? "Boo hoo hoo, I should have stayed married and had kids." Much of that is probably her fading
You are never 'protected' from lawyers (conflict tax collectors whose motive is to keep you in conflict), incessant lawfare, or crooked Kommie judges (apparently rampant in Family Law).
In the end, the changeable emotional one can do as she pleases if the Law allows her. Change the Laws!
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