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Ok, on a posting on sex/marriage

https://patrick.net/post/1328513/2019-11-13-how-to-have-great-married-sex

I said, "What she's basically saying is that ppl need sex robots, with variable software & differing faces and boob/butt sizes, not human relationships with strings attached."

Optimists replied with ...

Quigley says

Rin, I appreciate your point of view, and the struggles involved with maintaining relationships with women. But the unattached single life is not for me. I wanted a wife and kids, and even though those people cost me money and most of my time, I wouldn’t want it any other way. I love my wife and want the best possible relationship with her. When it’s good, it’s very good. I have a companion who is beautiful and intelligent, industrious and caring. She makes this family thing work. It’s worth more than being by myself with all my money. Plus, she tends to temper my bad habits. I’ll probably live a lot longer with her than without her.
So if problems with sex arise, I will fix them. It’s worth it.

E-man says

@Rin, I like you, but I’m with @Quigley 100% on this. You can say we’re two lucky guys who found great mates.

Around the same time, I'd heard from a martial artist friend from mine and he had to completely rearrange his schedule to meet with his trainer, just outside of the city of Boston, on Wednesday, from Mon or Tues, because those were the only two days where his 'Sensei' or 'Sifi' was able to legally see his children.