patrick.net

Possibly relevant:

http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/07/how-strong-is-the-female-sex-drive-after-all/277429/

You know I find that when my wife is making my life miserable with nagging and complaining. That is the ONE time that she wont give me the old... "Not now I have a head ache" or "Not now, I'm not in the mood".

I just have to muster up the courage to navigate her tantrum.

Funny how that works.

ohomen171 says

For all of you men out there, an older man gave me some wonderful advice as follows:"When a woman starts giving you her complaints, she doesn't want you to suggest solutions. She only wants you to listen to her."

Women are nurturers, men are "fixers." When a woman tells you about her day and how her boss is an ass who mistreats her, she wants you to listen and commiserate - but not "fix" it. She wants you to listen.

Ask her how she feels, give her a massage or make her something in the kitchen or do something unexpectedly sweet and she'll be putty in your hands,

When men they tell you about their complaints, they want you to suggest a threesome with another hot woman. If you deliver, they will be putty in your hands.

Unconditional emotional and material support from you, and freedom to have sex with anyone she chooses. It's your decision whether to give in to either of her desires.

So there are two different responses to different types of women;

1. If you guys have been together for a long time, and she almost has no other options due to age etc., Listen to her carefully, with the primary goal being helping boosting her self-esteem. Offer solutions only when explicitly asked.

2. If she is some young hottie that you are dating, kick her ass to the curb asap. That's the only way to keep her when she is giving you the shit test. She gets zillions of offers every day telling her you are not worth her time; her complaints are just testing to see if you are her caliber.

I just throw her in the downstairs dungeon for a day or two of bread and water, and let her gnaw on the iron bars. Then she is as good as new for a while.

Apparently, the evolutionary strategy of women is to keep men in a chronic state of confusion i.e. WHATEVER the man is doing at the moment is WRONG no matter what it is.

When I finally realized that, it was pretty easy to devise counter strategies and gain reasonable peace of mind.

What do women want? Money for doing nothing and the sperm of a rich man.

Once you have given her money, she will murder you if she can get away with it.

Once you give women what they want, you are now disposable. You serve no use anymore.

Women/Females are the most narcissistically selfish parasitical creatures in the entire world.

They will also be willing to murder you for inheritance and insurance if they believe they may get away with it scot-free.

Her children are merely pawns as well and she will eventually dispose of them once she sees fit.

The male children first... Then eventually the female princess complex little whores.

Why do you male peasants want a wife and children? 99.99999999999% chance that they will prove to be unfaithful.

Why is it also that we Rothschilds, Rockefellers, Morgans, Vanderbilts, Carnegies, Duponts and the rest of the criminal aristocracy end up mostly with loyal wives and children? Even before our ancestors were rich and they were poor... The women were not a bunch of gold-digging worthless prostitutes.

Robber Baron Elite Scum says

What do women want? Money for doing nothing and the sperm of a rich man.

You may be right about the money, but the sperm part sounds like a rich guy trying to make himself feel better.

They want the sperm of the pool boy, gardener, tennis coach, etc., but they do want the rich man to think it was his own sperm.

yawn. aint nobody got time for that

http://www.youtube.com/embed/PoKA-a5vEEc

Skip to 1:50

I had a bit younger gfriend way back when here not to long ago, and she would really let loose after work once in a while, especially even after maybe .. a few drinks. She just really needed to let it out sometimes, after telling her she was a bitxx one time, I learned that listening trick myself.

http://www.youtube.com/embed/-4EDhdAHrOg

Ceffer says

If a man brings a beautiful rose, she will blush and show appreciation. The next time, the rose is taken for granted, and the show of appreciation is diluted until it is no longer there, the resource feedback loop has been exhausted.

The ego is like a beast that can never be satisfied no matter how much it eats. Men aren't above this either and can suffer from their ego consuming any and all sorts of social valuation that it can.

Robber Baron Elite Scum says

Once you give women what they want, you are now disposable. You serve no use anymore.

epitaph says

Skip to 1:50

I think all of those men are attractive. But they do become more attractive when they make more money because then they are successful, confident, smart and know how to navigate through life. That in itself becomes attractive. It's just not simply the money per se.

That one really handsome guy who works in retail, why isn't he more motivated to be something more? It reflects on his view of himself. He is lazy, and that's a bad trait for a man.

Tastes vary widely: "No shortage of women who dream of snaring a husband on Death Row / Experts ponder why deadliest criminals get so many proposals." Nature is a mad scientist, the genetic deck is always getting re-shuffled, if something led to successful reproduction in the past then it may still be in the genome somewhere, and new possibilities appear endlessly. 10% of human DNA consists of viral DNA that infected ancient ancestors, even pre-human ancestors. These genes have no idea where they are, they have no conscious logic, and the modern world produces cues that have no evolutionary history. How should brains that depend on pre-human DNA react to a face they saw on television? Reactions vary. T. Gondii causes mice to become attracted to cats, which is a successful reproductive strategy for T.Gondii even though suicidal for the mice; T. Gondii infects humans too, and makes infected males more likely to die in a car wreck but also more attractive to women; other infections produce similarly self-destructive behavior in other species. Our entire consciousness is a mere by-product of genetics, and most of the genes we carry belong to oblivious microbes, for whom we are merely wandering islands of sustenance. Because of that consciousness though, boredom is a significant factor; try re-imagining the dull office supply clerk as a sculptor or children's music teacher with the same income, and probably he seems more attractive.

MsBennet says

I think all of those men are attractive. But they do become more attractive when they make more money because then they are successful, confident, smart and know how to navigate through life. That in itself becomes attractive. It's just not simply the money per se.

You are projecting, and I know we are going off topic, but I agree, it's hard to get rich without any passion. But I've met enough rich douchebags to know that their negative characteristics can easily outweigh successful, confident, and smart.

This is another angle of being a woman that most men have no clue about. But I guess Dustin Hoffman knows a bit about it.

http://www.upworthy.com/dustin-hoffman-breaks-down-crying-explaining-something-that-every-woman-sadly-already-experienced-3?g=2

MsBennet says

I think all of those men are attractive. But they do become more attractive when they make more money because then they are successful, confident, smart and know how to navigate through life. That in itself becomes attractive. It's just not simply the money per se.

oh please give me a break. the only reason women find a man with money more attractive is because they want to take advantage of his money. i have heard of the "i like the way he lives his life" excuse before. it's womanese for "i want some of his money."

most men don't care if a woman is rich or poor because most can make their own money. a rich woman looks just as attractive as she is poor to men. and where i come from, men don't take money from women.

a guy working in retail doesn't necessarily mean he's lazy. different people have different levels of ambition. if he likes to stay in retail and surfs in the afternoon, why is that "bad" ? lets face it, it's only bad to money hungry women because he doesn't have money to give them a luxurious life. because women are attracted to money money money!!!!

LAMPS

L - Looks
A - Athleticism
M - Money
P - Power
S - Status (most important one)

side note

http://www.youtube.com/embed/DAYNwC-aMgQ

Never Make A Pretty Woman Your Wife

Possibly relevant:

http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/07/how-strong-is-the-female-sex-drive-after-all/277429/

this article shows that modern man understands precisely NOTHING about women.

if you adhere to all the traditional ideas about women, it's really incredibly simple.

Ceffer says

The trick would be to keep women appreciative of a reasonable level of resources for a reasonable period of time, which usually means marshaling their abandonment insecurities so they never take anything for granted.

the trick is to put them back in their rightful place and don't allow them to leave.

Mark D says

oh please give me a break. the only reason women find a man with money more attractive is because they want to take advantage of his money. i have heard of the "i like the way he lives his life" excuse before. it's womanese for "i want some of his money."

You are right that money brings security and women like that. But most women would not be with a creep even if he was rich. 30% of women now make more money than their husbands do anyway.

As for the guy that is a slacker and likes to surf all day, unless the women is a slacker too, he would not be marriage material. That is a valid lifestyle, no doubt but not marriage-able, which is what we are talking about I think.

MsBennet says

Mark D says

oh please give me a break. the only reason women find a man with money more attractive is because they want to take advantage of his money. i have heard of the "i like the way he lives his life" excuse before. it's womanese for "i want some of his money."

You are right that money brings security and women like that. But most women would not be with a creep even if he was rich. 30% of women now make more money than their husbands do anyway.

this is because our entire system promotes women over men, seemingly the cause is 'equality' but the real purpose is destruction of the economy, because EVERY single woman I have ever worked with in a professional scenario is incompetent, dishonest, and not even close to being worthy of her position. All this shit is only going to go on for a few more years, because all the men can't find jobs, the corporations filled with these idiot women don't produce anything of worth, and the entire system is just about to collapse in on itself. In addition, women are no longer getting married so there is no husband to make more money than- primarily because the men don't want to get married, as marriage has been converted into a legal death trap for men. So the women go off into their private universe of Sex in the City reruns and pretend as if they are living in some kind of posh fantasy land, where the only men around are sex-crazed lunatics with genital warts. This continues unitl about mid-40s when they realize they are 'unfulfilled' and then presume this problem is also the fault of men, and we should increase taxation and other kind of democra-benefits to enhance their pathetic lifestyle. For the last 20 odd years men have stood by watching this whole thing unfold without attempting to influence it, that is changing fast however.

way I see it is, if Womyn want to *take charge* then let em take charge. Give em the WHOLE THING- including the responsibilities- which is part of the equation they refuse to accept. Just remove yourself from being involved with society as much as possible. And believe me, I'm not the only one. As soon as they detect this kind of behavior they go absolutely berserk. But you know something? nothing can stop it. You can't trick someone into a life of servitude.

Robber Baron Elite Scum says

What do women want? Money for doing nothing and the sperm of a rich man.

Robber Baron Elite Scum says

What do women want? Money for doing nothing and the sperm of a rich man.

I carry my rich man sperm in a teeny bottle around my neck. Better than a diamond.

APOCALYPSEFUCK is Shostakovich says

Same as guys: sustained full-body orgasms 12-20 times a day and a daily regimen of debauchery and orgiastic excess that would make Caligula faint.

Works for me.

Oxygen says

LAMPS

L - Looks
A - Athleticism
M - Money
P - Power
S - Status (most important one)

I thought you were going to say

L - Linux
A - Apache
M - MySql
P - PHP
S - Sweaty Programmers

And I was all like, finally women want geeky engineers!

Women want men who will rip other men's heads off and steal all their stuff and give it to them. That's why they go for the death row inmates, because they are proven performers.