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Millionaire Success Factors


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2013 Oct 9, 6:04am   30,887 views  92 comments

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In a survey of rich people, here is a summary of what they said was important to their success:

Well disciplined
Used their business to create wealth
Strong spiritual faith
Married (28 years on average)
Lived within their means
Worked harder than most others
Well organized
Competitive spirit

On the other hand, poor people were surveyed and asked how they thought rich people acquired their wealth, and the responses were:

#1 reason: "they were lucky"
#2 reason: "it was inherited"
#3 reason: "they did something dishonest"

Is anyone surprised?

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31   thomaswong.1986   2013 Oct 11, 12:28pm  

New Renter says

Why indeed? Just curious have you ever been there?

And yes as you yourself point out it does host at least half of CERN. As far as high energy physics goes France is indeed the beacon of Tech.

what is the internet but collection of Semiconductors, Storage and Software products we been doing for some years prior.. without all the tools its all trival for France ...

we certainly should be doing more with nuclear programs... but the tree huggers
have other ideas...

32   Danaseb   2013 Oct 11, 12:32pm  

Rather than go by what they volunteer as reasons for their success, lets go by actual factors in their past, atleast before bashing poor people once again in full on murican mode.

33   drew_eckhardt   2013 Oct 11, 12:49pm  

Dan8267 says

By mathematical necessity, the vast majority of people cannot be rich. For being rich means having much more wealth than the median person so that you don't have to do mundane tasks.

The majority of people can be rich just not this decade.

As such, it is foolish to have the goal of becoming rich. Math demands failure for the vast majority of those with such a goal.

It's idiotic not to work at becoming rich (at which point you stop doing mundane things like working for a paycheck) and not too hard to get there.

Social security only replaces 30% of a professional's income up to the wage cap if they don't have a surviving spouse and even that can't be counted on because it's likely to become means tested.

You need 25X what you'd like to live on for a normal length retirement and 33X to survive indefinitely due to forced early retirement, longevity increases, etc.

For $100K/year that's $2.5M - $3.3M and up to $5M at the $150K/year cut-off for moderate income housing in San Mateo. Those sorts of non-housing assets and unearned income qualify as "rich" in most peoples' eyes when it's not camouflaged as a pension.

With the S&P 500 averaging 7% real returns (with dividends re-invested) over the last 50 years getting there in 40 years means saving $1000 - $2000 a month. Not buying expensive houses and new cars (where the average payment is $475/month) makes that possible. Not breeding is also a fine idea, although most people find it hard to resist the genetic imperative to reproduce.

Most people never get rich because they'd rather buy crap like shiny new cars

Last month Nakisha Bishop took out a loan to buy a $23,000 Toyota Camry and pay off several thousand dollars still owed on her old car. The key to making it work: she got more than six years—75 months in all—to pay it off.

"I had a new baby on the way, and I was trying to keep my monthly payment a little bit lower to help afford child care," Ms. Bishop, a 34-year-old sheriff's deputy in Palm Beach County, Fla., said recently. She pays $480 a month for the 2013 Camry, just $5 a month more than the note on her old car. The car won't be paid off until her 1-month-old daughter is heading to first grade.

although in that case the woman will probably have the government keep her millions for her and dish it out monthly as a public servant's pension.

34   freak80   2013 Oct 11, 1:00pm  

"Hard work" doesn't mean anything. Illegal immigrants work far harder than most of us could ever imagine. And they barely make enough to survive.

Capitalism rewards bargaining power, it has little to do with "hard work."

The far-right narrative that "hard work guarantees success" is just a sneaky way of saying "anyone who is poor and/or isn't a millionaire is just a lazy bum." Of course some jerks (like Honest Abe) are willing to say it outright.

35   John Bailo   2013 Oct 11, 2:01pm  

Honest Abe says

Is anyone surprised?

My own personal experience tells me that both can be true.

The existence of Mega-Millions confirms it.

36   thomaswong.1986   2013 Oct 11, 4:14pm  

freak80 says

The far-right narrative that "hard work guarantees success" is just a sneaky way of saying "anyone who is poor and/or isn't a millionaire is just a lazy bum." Of course some jerks (like Honest Abe) are willing to say it outright.

narrative backed up by real life success stories time and time again. this is not a far right

narrative but real stories of people who went out to strike it on their own.

from the times of early colonist to western settlers to modern day entrepreneurs.

they had enough and they packed their stuff for find a better life....

37   New Renter   2013 Oct 11, 5:40pm  

thomaswong.1986 says

New Renter says

Why indeed? Just curious have you ever been there?

And yes as you yourself point out it does host at least half of CERN. As far as high energy physics goes France is indeed the beacon of Tech.

II

what is the internet but collection of Semiconductors, Storage and Software products we been doing for some years prior.. without all the tools its all trivial for France ...

I'm not sure what you are getting at here, that without our inventing semiconductors, storage and software France would have nothing? I suppose if you take it back far enough we would have nothing had France not come to our aid in our revolution. We also would have much less had France not sold us half our country for a pittance.

we certainly should be doing more with nuclear programs... but the tree huggers
have other ideas...

Glad we agree on that point. I will also point out Marseilles has the global HQ of Eurocopter, Airbus HQ in Toulouse, Renault, PSA Peugeot, Michelin all French. Hell even the most high tech car in the world, the Bugatti Veryon is made in France.

Go there sometime, bring the family, you'll like it.

38   New Renter   2013 Oct 11, 5:44pm  

thomaswong.1986 says

freak80 says

The far-right narrative that "hard work guarantees success" is just a sneaky way of saying "anyone who is poor and/or isn't a millionaire is just a lazy bum." Of course some jerks (like Honest Abe) are willing to say it outright.

narrative backed up by real life success stories time and time again. this is not a far right

narrative but real stories of people who went out to strike it on their own.

from the times of early colonist to western settlers to modern day entrepreneurs.

they had enough and they packed their stuff for find a better life....

And died in droves. Yep, sounds like a good ol time!

39   thomaswong.1986   2013 Oct 11, 5:45pm  

New Renter says

And died in droves. Yep, sounds like a good ol time!

LOL... myth.. what are you doing in San Jose.. how did you get here.. how did others
get here... ?

40   thomaswong.1986   2013 Oct 11, 6:00pm  

New Renter says

I'm not sure what you are getting at here, that without our inventing semiconductors, storage and software France would have nothing?

you cant have the Internet with out the 3 high tech products above(Semi, storage, SW)
Cant be done without it..!

New Renter says

Glad we agree on that point. I will also point out Marsilles has the global HQ of Eurocopter, Airbus HQ in Toulouse, Renault, PSA Peugeot, Michelin all French. Hell even the most high tech car in the world, the Bugatti Veryon is made in France.

yes.. they did very well in many different industries.. its just Semi/Storage/SW wasnt their thing.
they had that Minitel .. that was an advancement for sure.. so what went wrong ?

41   FuckTheMainstreamMedia   2013 Oct 11, 7:16pm  

freak80 says

"Hard work" doesn't mean anything. Illegal immigrants work far harder than most of us could ever imagine. And they barely make enough to survive.

Capitalism rewards bargaining power, it has little to do with "hard work."

The far-right narrative that "hard work guarantees success" is just a sneaky way of saying "anyone who is poor and/or isn't a millionaire is just a lazy bum." Of course some jerks (like Honest Abe) are willing to say it outright.

1.) No one says hard work guarantees anything. What they do say is that you can't achieve without hard work. Lots of people work hard, fail, learn from those failures, work hard again using that knowledge. Those types are more likely to achieve and succeed.

2.) Many illegal immigrants don't work for shit. Some do. But they VERY often do work that either isn't in much demand or they do work that just about anyone else can do. Either way, its in low paying jobs requiring few advanced skills. As such they get paid little. An illegal immigrants work ethic will tend to not get them very far financially because they don't possess skills that others will pay much for, and because they can't necessarily enter the business world themselves due to their illegal status.

42   New Renter   2013 Oct 12, 1:53am  

thomaswong.1986 says

New Renter says

And died in droves. Yep, sounds like a good ol time!

LOL... myth.. what are you doing in San Jose.. how did you get here.. how did others

get here... ?

Are you kidding? what is the population around here that can trace their lineage back to the 19th century? Most people in California can trace their family history to at most the 1950s, not the 1850s

...but your right, cholera, smallpox all just a scary stories the pioneers told their kids. the natives never attacked, the Donner party itself was just an urban legend started by AF in 1973.

43   New Renter   2013 Oct 12, 2:41am  

thomaswong.1986 says

New Renter says

I'm not sure what you are getting at here, that without our inventing semiconductors, storage and software France would have nothing?

you cant have the Internet with out the 3 high tech products above(Semi, storage, SW)

Cant be done without it..!

New Renter says

Glad we agree on that point. I will also point out Marsilles has the global HQ of Eurocopter, Airbus HQ in Toulouse, Renault, PSA Peugeot, Michelin all French. Hell even the most high tech car in the world, the Bugatti Veryon is made in France.

yes.. they did very well in many different industries.. its just Semi/Storage/SW wasnt their thing.

they had that Minitel .. that was an advancement for sure.. so what went wrong ?

Maybe but most of that isn't manufactured here either - that's done in Asia.

So no the internet isn't their thing, just as a real nuclear program, good high speed rail, futbol, mimes, and Jerry Lewis's humor isn't our thing.

Anyway its a bit disingenuous to pit France alone against the US. Its fairer to compare the US to all of Europe or say California to France.

On that note go check out the Rhone valley. Seriously, it makes California wine country look like a cheezy wannabe. The superrich Chinese are buying up French vineyards as if they were property in the RBA.

44   clambo   2013 Oct 12, 5:05am  

Re: how rich got that way.
I believe that the list should also have included "had brains".
There are plenty of stupid people who have made millions, e.g athletes, actors, etc who have lost it all from lack of brains.
Also, people who have brains like Steve Jobs have gotten rich, or Woz if you prefer.

The other rich are those who inherited their wealth. They are not always smart and sometimes lose their money over time.

Rich who are self made are sometimes fun to be around. They're generally happy and have a positive outlook on things.

45   FuckTheMainstreamMedia   2013 Oct 12, 6:02am  

I gotta point out something else thats a common theme in these sorts of threads.

Most millionaires(or rich/wealthy people) did not inherit that money. Of course I can point to those who have, but mostly wealthy and high income people are self made(though they may have been born into situations providing an inherent advantage).

http://finance.yahoo.com/news/pf_article_110333.html

"2. Millionaires Just Inherited Their Money
According to Thomas J. Stanley's book, "The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America's Wealthy," only 20% of millionaires inherited their riches. The other 80% are what you'd call nouveau riche: first-generation millionaires who earned their cash on their own. Many millionaires simply worked, saved, and lived within their means to generate their wealth -- think accountants and managers: regular people going to work every day. Most millionaires didn't get their riches overnight when a rich relative died -- they worked for the money."

I think some of you very left wing leaners need to go spend a few years playing poker...Commerce Casino in LA is best, starting at the $600 buy in No Limit Hold Em or the $20-40 Limit Hold em, but Bay 101 works as well and offers the same game. The reason I say this is that a LOT of the players are business owners who have done well...at least well enough to manage their companies only part time and also to be able to blow $10-50K a year or so playing poker. So basically some degenerates who can't really afford those games, a few pros although this low end a game makes for a rough lifestyle in expensive locations, and at least a few players per table who are gonna lose, but have the income level to sustain those loses.

Its an enlightening experience to say the least. You'll meet people you never would have otherwise. Heck, one guy at Commerce that plays a bit lower is the guy who actually started El Pollo Loco, before it was a chain. I can't guess at the political leanings...most people don't discuss politics at the table. From the guys that are pro's, the leaning is libertarian, but there are people from all over the gamut. No socialists, no far right wing idealogues. Poker is about as libertarian a game as you can find.....each player is free to play whatever amount of money they desire, each player is free to play whatever strategy they see fit.

What you will find is that the guys that built up a business....in each and every case it required very very hard work. Hard work above and beyond what most people call hard work. Most people are entirely unfamiliar with 100-120 hour work weeks, and if suggested, dismiss it by saying "oh, im not giving up my life for work". And yeah, much like poker where the correct strategies will win in the long run, on any given day, luck can turn things one way or the other. Luck is a non zero factor, although in the long run, its very heavily mitigated...at poker and at hard work.

Of course, that hard work sometimes results in failure. I know that lifestyle wasn't for me at all. So after floundering a bit after graduating college, I found a govt job requiring my degree and have not looked back. I'm very happy. I make enough to have a roof over my head, a car I love, and in general I enjoy my life. The 100 hour workweek is absolutely not for me. I accept the financial limitations this places on me. But I do not begrudge those who choose to place an emphasis on work and income. Thats their prerogative.

46   theoakman   2013 Oct 12, 6:43am  

I teach in a town that is filled with CEOs, executives, and people of inherited wealth. It's easily one of the richest towns in the nation. It's funny. They'll go to war to try to limit the teacher's pay in town if it means they pay $100 less on their property taxes.

The worst of the worst experience I've had was when I tutored one of the kids in town. I walk into a mansion to do the tutoring. Mother tells me, she forgot to go to the bank and will settle up with me on my next visit. She stiffed me and refused to ever return my calls.

Now I'm not trying to label people with a paint brush, because I've met plenty of great rich folks in town. But seriously, a good portion of these people get where they are because they manipulate their way to the top screwing everyone over in the process. Everyone has seen the useless people making high six figures in the various companies that they've worked for. They didn't get there with their good spiritual faith and hard work.

47   thomaswong.1986   2013 Oct 12, 8:00am  

theoakman says

But seriously, a good portion of these people get where they are because they manipulate their way to the top screwing everyone over in the process. Everyone has seen the useless people making high six figures in the various companies that they've worked for. They didn't get there with their good spiritual faith and hard work.

in my neck of the woods, no one screwed anyone.. how could they ? they started as one or two man show which ultimately grew and hired and delegated job tasks to others. Alot depended on good faith and hard work. And Santa Clara became known as Silicon Valley, Im sure there are many similar example in other global metros.

48   thomaswong.1986   2013 Oct 12, 8:06am  

clambo says

Re: how rich got that way.

I believe that the list should also have included "had brains".

There are plenty of stupid people who have made millions, e.g athletes, actors, etc who have lost it all from lack of brains.

Also, people who have brains like Steve Jobs have gotten rich, or Woz if you prefer.

focus.. your focus will determine your reality...

all the real successful people had this as did Jobs.. even when he left apple he found a new
idea/project to focus on .. and there he made Next Cube with new OS which became the new
OS for Apple...

49   theoakman   2013 Oct 12, 8:07am  

thomaswong.1986 says

theoakman says

But seriously, a good portion of these people get where they are because they manipulate their way to the top screwing everyone over in the process. Everyone has seen the useless people making high six figures in the various companies that they've worked for. They didn't get there with their good spiritual faith and hard work.

in my neck of the woods, no one screwed anyone.. how could they ? they started as one or two man show which ultimately grew and hired and delegated job tasks to others. Alot depended on good faith and hard work. And Santa Clara became known as Silicon Valley, Im sure there are many similar example in other global metros.

I'm not talking about people that start their own companies. They pretty much have a right to do what they want without judgement within their own company.

Most of the people that I'm talking about enter a giant pharma corporation or wall street firm after their parents pay for an ivy league school. They never really accomplish much yet climb the ladder.

50   FuckTheMainstreamMedia   2013 Oct 12, 9:41am  

theoakman says

the woods, no one screwed anyone.. how could they ? they started as one or two man show which ultimately grew and hired and delegated job tasks to others. Alot depended on good faith and hard work. And Santa Clara became known as Silicon Valley, Im sure there are many similar example in other global metros.

I think you are tainted in your view of things and being very untruthful, perhaps not by intent.

Its why I stated the conditions I did. A poker table. There is no more open environment. You must use judgement. And despite the propensity for bluffing in poker, most people are not lying when they discuss their personal life at the table.

51   Rin   2013 Oct 12, 11:09am  

theoakman says

Everyone has seen the useless people making high six figures in the various companies that they've worked for.

I think this is sometimes known as the Art of MBA-ology.

52   MisdemeanorRebel   2013 Oct 12, 11:12am  

Dan8267 says

Seriously, Honest Abe, I'd like to know why. It's not like Mark fucking Zuckerberg has created more wealth than Berners-Lee. Explain why one is rich and the other isn't. Because to the rest of us, it seems that Berners-Lee produced far more, but Zuckerfuck was far more conniving and manipulative, backstabbing everyone on the way to the top. I guess backstabbing is the "hard work" you keep referring to that separates us peasants from the Zuckerfucks and Blankfeins of the world.

Jaw-droppingly AWESOME response.

53   Oxygen   2013 Oct 12, 11:16am  

intergenerational resources & luck are the differentiating factors between a hard working 400k-aire and a multimillionaire, generally speaking.

54   EInvestor   2013 Oct 12, 11:23am  

YOU CAN NOT BE WHAT YOU RESENT. Unsuccessful people are too busy hating successful people to learn what makes successful people successful.

55   MisdemeanorRebel   2013 Oct 12, 11:34am  

EInvestor says

YOU CAN NOT BE WHAT YOU RESENT. Unsuccessful people are too busy hating successful people to learn what makes successful people successful.

Fake it till you make it. No Stinkin' Thinkin'. You too can be a millionaire if you just keep sharing this great opportunity at Amway/Quixtar will all your friends and neighbors. Direct personal marketing is the way of the future. We're all going to be diamonds!

edited to remove obnoxious CAPS.

Leona Helmsley was too busy, uh, too busy, uh, too busy showing everyone how to style canines and be frugal with their cash to resent people more successful than her.

56   thomaswong.1986   2013 Oct 12, 11:40am  

theoakman says

Most of the people that I'm talking about enter a giant pharma corporation or wall street firm after their parents pay for an ivy league school. They never really accomplish much yet climb the ladder.

you think many who become successful think about these ivy league types.. why the distractions ?

57   thomaswong.1986   2013 Oct 12, 11:48am  

EInvestor says

YOU CAN NOT BE WHAT YOU RESENT. Unsuccessful people are too busy hating successful people to learn what makes successful people successful.

this is so true .... too many especial today are too blind by their hate to realize it..

58   Rin   2013 Oct 12, 12:34pm  

Let's stop the irrational hatred on Ivy Leaguers.

The Ivy League means recruitment for management consulting firms, financial services industries, DC/govt committees, law and medical schools. That comprises roughly 70+% of Ivy graduates.

With that stated, if one attends the Ivies and plays the game to become a Rainmaker in the aforementioned areas, then sure, they're rich, even if their origins were once middle class.

Unfortunately, what a lot of ppl forget is that Hank Paulson's grandchildren, also attend Ivies, and thus, they don't have to work all that hard, to become investment bankers or simply, junior partners in a some financial company.

So yes, it's better to be born rich and well connected.

59   freak80   2013 Oct 13, 12:38pm  

Rin says

So yes, it's better to be born rich and well connected.

No, it's better to be born poor and on welfare.

At least according to Call it Crazy.

60   thomaswong.1986   2013 Oct 13, 12:42pm  

egads101 says

what a bunch of crap from two arrogant and stupid assholes!

Roberto.. you are a credit to the education you received from UC Berzerkeley..

and the contribution you have given to society.. which amounts to zero !

62   MisdemeanorRebel   2013 Oct 14, 1:35am  

freak80 says

Rin says

So yes, it's better to be born rich and well connected.

No, it's better to be born poor and on welfare.

At least according to Call it Crazy.

Yeah, who wants to inherit millions, when you have a once-in-a-lifetime chance your EBT card will malfunction and let you buy $500 of Mac and Cheese.

63   tatupu70   2013 Oct 14, 1:38am  

thunderlips11 says

Yeah, who wants to inherit millions, when you have a once-in-a-lifetime
chance your EBT card will malfunction and let you buy $500 of Mac and
Cheese.

That's what I daydream about. Although I'd throw in some Ramen noodles too.

64   edvard2   2013 Oct 14, 1:43am  

I guess the reason I dislike threads like these is because this seems to be a theme that some folks on the right like to project: That somehow people on the left are all disdainful of those with wealth, and that those whom are on welfare or otherwise in a compromised position are undeserving of any assistance-aka- Ronald Reagan speak.

The background rhetoric that those whom came up with this crap for the right-wing constituency to lap up is basically: " Shut up and don't question " The system". In other words, come up with a way to make the base look elsewhere for a place to put their blame for their own failures and in this case, what better way to do so than blame people or groups who can't say anything back. Meanwhile the folks in the back room get to do whatever.

I could care less if people are stinkin' loaded. Perhaps its because I also do fairly well financially, but I also worked for peanuts for years at around $7 an hour in the Bay Area, which is NOT easy to do. So I've been there, done that, and have done well for myself. But I don't have disdain for those who make a lot less or work at minimum wage jobs. After my experiences working at restaurants and big box stores the people who still work at such places have my deep respect because that is not easy work and it doesn't pay much.

And so it is a total mystery to me why some on the right hold this caustic view of others who might not be doing as well financially an then make bland, general statements insomuch that they all must be jealous of the wealthy and also at the same time on social programs or whatever.

Sorry, but the sort of country we founded is a Republic in the form of a social democracy. That has always meant that yes- taxation is collected and used for the advancement of the greater good- meaning all of us. That means everything from battleships, freeways, pay for politicians in office, and yes- social welfare. Its all part of the same package. So why there are those who focus only and ironically only on the very programs that either currently or someday will benefit THEMSELVES is a mystery to me.

65   MisdemeanorRebel   2013 Oct 14, 1:48am  

Of course there are poor people who work hard. The drywall don't hang itself. The ditches don't dig themselves. Those trash cans that get put out Thursday evening don't empty themselves. The Big Mac Meal is not created wholly by machine.

Lots of these jobs involve a lot of hard work, but pay like shit and have no upward mobility.

66   MisdemeanorRebel   2013 Oct 14, 1:53am  

thunderlips11 says

freak80 says

Rin says

So yes, it's better to be born rich and well connected.

No, it's better to be born poor and on welfare.

At least according to Call it Crazy.

Yeah, who wants to inherit millions, when you have a once-in-a-lifetime chance your EBT card will malfunction and let you buy $500 of Mac and Cheese.

Man, I screwed this up. Make that 500 pounds of Yams!

67   mell   2013 Oct 14, 1:57am  

thunderlips11 says

Those trash cans that get put out Thursday evening don't empty themselves.

http://www.sfgate.com/bayarea/article/Lockout-by-Oakland-garbage-company-Replacement-2553925.php

Some of the jobs actually pay decently (even non-illegal construction workers are paid ok), so it is more of a negative social stigma, fuck that stigma. Even emptying trash-cans and cleaning in offices in San Francisco is a relatively well paid job with great benefits (for the whole family), but I hardly ever see born Americans doing these jobs. And it is likely healthier to empty garbage cans than sitting at a desk all day. Of course with all the raging inflation these jobs are barely enough to sustain a family (single is no problem), so ideally both have to work.

68   Y   2013 Oct 14, 1:59am  

The thread header says nothing about what you state.
You are simply projecting.

egads101 says

so... rich people think they are better than other people???

Then it must be the truth!

69   Y   2013 Oct 14, 2:01am  

It just seems that way to you because you have none of the traits for success listed in the thread header.

wave9x says

Do you really expect rich people to admit they got their wealth by screwing others over, being greedy and selfish, and skirting the law?

70   FuckTheMainstreamMedia   2013 Oct 14, 2:19am  

Edward, your suppositions are completely wrong.

You place incorrect emphasis on the working poor and lower middle class, people whom rarely receive government benefits, in your argument.

Generally as a single person, $8/hr full time means you do not qualify for any assistence and you're usually paying federal and state income tax. I actually don't believe too many would ever be opposed to a temporary term(say five years) of medical, education, and housing subsidy for these individuals. Of course accompanied by wide scale cutback and termination of all benefits for those that don't work at all.

But that's never been proposed I don't think.

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