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Kids bring intangible benefits to their parents if the kids turn out into nice adults. This of course it the hope of all parents.
A guy has to be stable, successful, make a great living and be fearless in the face of divorce, financial ruin, and all the rest of it. It takes a certain kind of bravery that many no longer have.
The several times I was about to marry some job change or other circumstance put the kibosh on it.
I've even dated a couple of girls in Mexico who actually did NOT want children because they had been forced to care for a couple of very young siblings so they were done with "parenting". Generally it's rare there that an adult has no children. I would be asked "Why don't you have any?" often.
As you age you'll meet many women who have kids already of various ages, and you can get into that milieu if you desire to. They're possibly going to be almost as loyal to you as their biological fathers if you are generous,etc.
My friend worries constantly about his adult children, as does my older brother. He often says he must work forever because of his kids.
Another friend of mine moved to a very undesireable state for a job simply so he could keep paying his adult children's tuition and grad school. He was actually well off enough to retire early.
Those who do not have children will maybe say they are happy to have the money instead, but probably it's only a rationalization.

leoj707 says

Love, happiness, hope are all also a part of life.

For some people. Certainly not for everyone.