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jan says

For you people in CA, listen to this for 350k I can get a completely tricked out center hall colonial from Ryan homes in Pgh. Come here, it's cheap and the people are nice.

I love Pittsburgh! Most of my family is from there. I used to live near Freeport.

The Californians wouldn't be able to handle the winters in Pittsburgh though. Plus I'm sure most of them think it's a polluted hell-hole. That's good. It keeps the house prices reasonable!

Jvolstad, that's one of the best SNL skits ever!

LOL wthrfrk80, it takes a year to acclimate to phg, but the summers are much better than florida. We were slaves to the a/c down there. California was fun to visit, but no we decided against it more than 20 years ago.

But, boy could we spend money in California, the whole society is like that, but here keeping up with the jones is not cool. We had no housing bubble here, yep, flat as a pancake. Doing things right just isn't the same here as it is there, a whole different mindset. Lots of tech and insurance and health here now, all the mills are gone, except a few specialty mills. But no Rolls Royce dealer, or whole foods are here. If you want fresh food there are farmers markets each weekend. You only go to Macy's for a special occasion outfit, mostly blue collar and kids of blue collar who went to college thanks to the unions wages of their parents. And if you were caught selling an exploding arm here, know that your neighbor who owns that arm is armed. Very little crime here because everyone is packing, hunting, or shooting at the range. Well, dinners ready, thanks for the giggle.

@Hey you, that Carlin clip really is priceless, one of the funniest bits ever. Thanks for posting it.

As some famous person somewhere once said "Everything I know I learned the hard way."

I've owned property. Local `authorities` (cough) annexed and rezoned my several properties from what I bought to what they wanted it to be, till I was nothing but a tax serf paying their alms. I sold those properties which cost me a bundle. Lesson learned. Never again.

I still have TWO storage units (full of stuff) in two different states, one of which is full of my grandmother's stuff and dammit she died thirty years ago. Just couldn't part with it and what the hell do I do with it now? Trying to negotiate with my kids to take great grandma's stuff, but what the hell are they going to do with it all? Moving it will cost a fortune.

We now rent an apartment--with a garage which was necessary--because when we moved back to the US from overseas we brought back all this damn interesting and wonderful stuff. What to do with this garage full of fascinating foreign stuff?

AND I have another storage unit with a housefull of stuff that's been in storage for 10 years. I will never live in a house in the US again, what the hell do I do with furnishings and garden fountains and patio furniture when I move to a tiny flat in Monevideo or Ecuador?

I was railroaded by a lifetime American thinking and the fraud of ownership. I'm done with the American thinking and the fraud, but I'm still stuck with with all the stuff.

I just thank god every day that I'm a renter and I don't have a house I need to unload as well.

gardener1 says

I just thank god every day that I'm a renter and I don't have a house I need to unload as well.

As a landlord .. I salute you and encourage your mindset. Own nothing. Sell the valuable bits to me and then use the money I paid you to rent from me. Sounds good!

Jan,

Great description of Pittsburgh vs. California. Love it!

jan says

LOL wthrfrk80, it takes a year to acclimate to phg, but the summers are much better than florida.

Met my third wife in Pittsburgh. Her ex-husband at the time was the number #2 boy in town. deputy mayor. Just to give you some idea of JC's powers of charm! Florida is a strange land. Was stationed on the coast in '78. Lots of good stories from Florida, The things is everyone from Ohio and Jersey moves to Florida so you get a real weird bunch doing real weird things to one another.

gardener1 says

I will never live in a house in the US again, what the hell do I do with furnishings and garden fountains and patio furniture when I move to a tiny flat in Monevideo or Ecuador?

I am leaning towards digitizing everything and only keeping a laptop and an iPad...

JodyChunder says

gardener1 says

I just thank god every day that I'm a renter and I don't have a house I need to unload as well.

As a landlord .. I salute you and encourage your mindset. Own nothing. Sell the valuable bits to me and then use the money I paid you to rent from me. Sounds good!

He he funny guy.

dublin hillz says

In San Jose, for a SFH 3/2 rental in a semi-safe area at least $3200.

Jeez what part of SJ are you looking at?

Here in Blossom Valley/Cambrian a 3/2 1500 sqft rental runs $2500/mo give or take. Go to the Silvercreek area and it drops $300 or so. My rental is 2 houses away from a nice park and I have on occasion gone on midnight walks with no question of my safety. I signed my first lease only a few months ago and prior to that I did my research. I was looking at higher end houses as well, $3000/mo would get you 2000 sqft in Almaden Valley. As we have multiple pets and are honest about it our options were severely limited but even still we managed to find a decent 3/2 for far less than you are quoting.

drew_eckhardt says

Starting compensation packages for fresh graduates at all the big software companies are over $100K and some of those kids rent houses together. Mid career good people can net over $200K at larger companies without getting into management. There are also couples with both partners working in that industry.

If that is true you can expect those jobs to be sent overseas ASAP. Heck send them to Pittsburg - I hear its nice and the housings cheap.

New renter says

Starting compensation packages for fresh graduates at all the big software companies are over $100K and some of those kids rent houses together.

No.

New renter says

Heck send them to Pittsburg

Hey now you forgot the "h" at the end. ;-)

Pittsburg is in the Bay Area!

clambo says

Herewith I will regale dear readers with an *extremely typical case* of the woman who must have everything.

Sounds to me like you need to find better dates. Non-materialistic women ARE out there - I married one and am grateful for it.

It does help one's perspective to go through a bottleneck at some point in your life. To watch all those things burn that were once so important to you or to be forced to whittle down you possessions to just about what will fit in your car or worse, what you can carry. Happens to people in other parts of the world all the time.

I suppose for most Americans its moving day. Finding and having to move all those heavy boxes still unopened from the last move is quite enlightening, especially when time is short.

xrpb11a says

Rent4Ever says

Is having a luxury car, watching cartoon network and having some games on your phone really worth 70k after just 10 years?

Yes.
Yes.
and Yes.

You are not alone, most of America would agree with you. Most of america is also heavily in debt, living paycheck to paycheck, and ill-prepared for retirement. Now that's living!!!

clambo says

Mexican professional guys blow money like it's water.

Professionals in Mexico barely make enough money to afford a small apartment and a ten year old beater of a car.

The ones you are talking about at the 1%'ers of Mexico.

Sr. Software Engineer / Developer / Programmer MXN 293,527
Project Manager, Information Technology (IT) MXN 413,475
Information Technology (IT) Manager MXN 424,847
General / Operations Manager MXN 808,889
Software Developer MXN 210,000
Regional Sales Manager MXN 497,996
Software Engineer MXN 204,193

http://www.payscale.com/research/MX/Country=Mexico/Salary

Cboy,
They also don't have expensive mortgages usually. Many live with a parent, grandparent, or have inherited a house.
It's culturally acceptable and common to be a spendthrift and save nothing because 1. former 150% inflation teaches blowing your money, "use it or lose it" 2. not common to find investments like Fidelity, T.Rowe Price, etc.
Once years ago I told my local friends about this idea for their proceeds from a business. The bank guy said they have mutual funds in Mexico and I spoke to a guy on the phone right there. The minimum investment=$100K USD.
The girl I mentioned in particular inherited a house and a pension income from both her father and grandfather. She works to spend her dough flying around and eating in restaurants, buying Raybans, handbags, etc.
Newrenter of course there are some "non materialistic women" out there. The exception proves the rule.
Go to your local *fancy* mall and tell me who is in there. I have never met an "extreme cheapskate" female. She must exist however, like unicorns.

I think the real comparison once the house is paid off is taxes + maintenance versus rent. Where I live, the paid off house wins by a large margin. Hate to be an 80 year old and still needing to come up with the rent money, and have no equity.

Which assumes of course you have no other form of equity, e.g. stocks, mutual funds, annuities, inheritance, 401k, social security, etc.
Those gangsta wannabe punks shuffling around in their baggy pants are not going to be making house prices rise much.
You can be an old geezer, take a chunk of change from your Roth IRA and make the down and immediately reverse mortgage the little house you want to live in the rest of your life. Problem solved using no "home equity".

clambo says

Go to your local *fancy* mall and tell me who is in there. I have never met an "extreme cheapskate" female. She must exist however, like unicorns.

On the rare occasions I hit the mall - and I HATE malls! - I see mostly high school kids. I don't know how old you are but if you are over 40 and looking at those kids I think I see your problem....

Patrick, guess who's reading your website?

Max Keiser and the Keiser Report.

http://maxkeiser.com/2012/07/08/anybody-ounce-good-sense-can-see-buying-property-anywhere-risk-need-taken-you-can-rent-place-live-anywhere-world-money-ahead/

This thread has been referenced on his website today. I am honored and humbled. As a mere part time gardener and lifelong peasant, I had no idea that anything I had to say meant shit in this world. I am stunned.

On the other hand, I do my best writing in the middle of the night befriended by a jug of Russki Standart.

Again, money is fiat and you better hope it will hold value if you put your theory to work. Look around at what's going on with the banks, there lack of stability is becoming a mainstream conversation.

wthrfrk80 says

New renter says

Heck send them to Pittsburg

Hey now you forgot the "h" at the end. ;-)

Pittsburg is in the Bay Area!

Yes but either way its still way cheaper than the rest of the BA

KILLERJANE says

Again, money is fiat and you better hope it will hold value if you put your theory to work.

In theory, there's nothing wrong with a fiat currency. As long as it's supply is tightly controlled, it holds its value.

Of course we all know that its supply isn't controlled enough to avoid long-term inflation.

newrenter, there are no guys like me hanging around malls.
I don't go to them often but when I was in the nice ones they're packed with ladies shopping not just punks shuffling around.
Valley Fair in San Jose comes to mind.
If I like to scope out young chicks that's another subject not about being an extreme cheapskate. However, that's still not reason enough for me to drive over to a miserable mall just to ogle.

Well, for all the people who read my thread and thought it was great, I am a woman, but an educated woman. Once you know the ins and outs of finance which is not taught but to the last year of college, you can do ok living on little. Hubby just took a 25% hit in wages, and it doesn't phase us a bit. I wonder how many unemployed people are waiting for the 100k jobs to roll around again. It ain't happening. I retired in my 20's because we found that my mall job was costing me money, not paying me. It's easy to do the math, just add up all the stuff you need while working and if the total comes close to yearly salary net, then women can retire early, and live on one income. But you have to give up going to malls totally, live in a small house, and have no kids. Lots to give up, most people won't do it.

clambo says

newrenter, there are no guys like me hanging around malls.

I don't go to them often but when I was in the nice ones they're packed with ladies shopping not just punks shuffling around.

Valley Fair in San Jose comes to mind.

If I like to scope out young chicks that's another subject not about being an extreme cheapskate. However, that's still not reason enough for me to drive over to a miserable mall just to ogle.

Well you are the one who hold up the ladies shopping at expensive malls and complains that "cheapskate" women are as elusive as unicorns. That's a bit like complaining you can't find a 4/3 3000 sqft house iin Palo Alto for under $500k.

Why not instead try the science dept at UCSC, hook up with a nice marine biologist or geochemist or other sciencey type. They're smart, can be hot and tend to be practical. Just watch out for the ones with large outstanding student loans.

jan says

I retired in my 20's because we found that my mall job was costing me money, not paying me. It's easy to do the math, just add up all the stuff you need while working and if the total comes close to yearly salary net, then women can retire early, and live on one income.

But then the hardcore feminists won't like you...

wthrfrk80 says

But then the hardcore feminists won't like you...

Actually the ones I know would LOVE you - they "love" their jobs as much as anyone else.

I am a hardcore feminist!!! Now, young women compete equally with the men, so I'm cool with that. It only failed when the question of homosexuality was defined equally with "sex", we've come a long way since then. Besides it's none of their business either what I do. But, back on topic, both in the marriage have to keep to a strict budget, men can be bad at going out and spending money just as easily as women. We just felt that since he worked from home, I stayed home to keep him company, and it works for us. Soon, he will have that opportunity again, and we will be fine with one car, gas, and no clothing expenses. There are trade-offs for everything. The problem arises when both work and get house, cars, babies, and then she doesn't work. There is where the debt gets out of control.

clambo says

Herewith I will regale dear readers with an *extremely typical case* of the woman who must have everything.
Firstly, every man I know who loves being a cheapskate and says it with pride

Well, I am not a Chesapeake and I am probably twice you age. I have always paid extry for all the good stuff out of self respect. I have all throughout my house the granite and the stainless. Also a koi pond. I feed the stray cats around my place prime cuts. not leftover stuff either. The girls go wild for this kind of thing even if they act like I'm crazy for being so free with my $$. Even if you meat a frugal type gal, pretty soon she will get tired of all that. Even a vegetarian bookworm is gonna want adventure and that costs money.

jan says

Soon, he will have that opportunity again, and we will be fine with one car, gas, and no clothing expenses.

You gonna rund around in the buff??

Jody, I do not doubt that being free with your money to impress the girls is necessary at your age and position.
What impresses women are three things:
1. fame, fortune, or just fortune.
2. youth, good looks
3. intelligence, interesting to talk to, etc.
We may have a combination of these, some people may have one of these.
If you possess NONE, you're toast with the ladies.
If you have #3, you will still have difficulty.
Jan's comments gave me a chuckle, she "retired" at 20 and therefore is happy. No big surprise there. Who would not? I would not call that particulary feminist however.
I am a true feminist, the ladies should all go out and make their money for their various bags, toys, iphones, vacations, clothes, shoes, nights out with their girlfriends to go salsa dancing, pilates and zumba classes, and of course, do not forget those great $3.50 frappuccinos at Starbucks.
New Renter, I do not "complain" that cheapskate women are rare, it's just a fact. It doesn't bother me in the least they are spendthrifts.
Without them and the guys who kill themselves to please them, and greedy lazy teenagers, we would have a much worse recession.
When that petite young yuppie in San Pedro bragged to me about having two iPhones I just smiled knowing that she was like millions of other budding consumers who will pump up my stocks, particularly AAPL.
For the record, I kid around about being cheap but I drop hints so they think I have the bucks stashed for some future use. I do and this keeps them motivated.

clambo says

If you possess NONE, you're toast with the ladies.

Not quite. You're fine as long as the girl you're going after has none of those three qualities as well.

No, I just get my clothes from ebay, buying someone else's mistakes. You've misunderstood me again. Being cheap doesn't mean that you go without neccessities, we both have a small amount of money each pay that goes to walking around money.

Brentok3 says

Latin America has a number of nice countries to live in

Really? I was under the impression that they were mostly corrupt and filled with drug-related violence.

This thread reflects the American attitudes about "consumerism".

Often we LAUD the things we like about it, and attribute them to our innate brilliance in coming up with them.

Many however attribute the negative sides of consumerism to the "other" or "those people", never themselves or the society they live in. It's always CRASS people or "material girls" that make the WRONG use of it and look like idiots. You of course don't care about what the neighbors think one whit right?

Classic case of poor craftsmen blaming their tools.

The thing that bugs me, is that the general case seems to be blaming poor people reaching above their station. If you have 12 yachts and 14 mansions you are not crass of course.

Vicente says

Many however attribute the negative sides of consumerism to the "other" or "those people", never themselves or the society they live in. It's always CRASS people or "material girls" that make the WRONG use of it and look like idiots. You of course don't care about what the neighbors think one whit right?

I think you're right. We all live in this toxic culture where "keeping up" is the be-all and end-all.

jan says

It only failed when the question of homosexuality was defined equally with "sex"

I don't think it is that simple. My understanding is that there was also a perception that women would enter the workforce only to leave after a few years to raise their children. Bosses were less willing to mentor even the brightest up and comers only to lose their investment within a few years.

stoutfiles that's funny. I hadn't thought of that. Now the flashback to MadTV "Lowered Expectations"
Brentok may be able to get by fine. If you are not trying to attract chicks you can really save a ton and no one will bother you at all.
Guys who lose all interest in women can 1. eat in cheap restaurants 2. wear sweatpants or goodwill clothing 3. drive a heap 4. ride a bike and skip the car 5. not spend money traveling together to club med and suchlike. 6. no gifts, flowers, etc. to be bought.
Most people seek security and this is what I derive my extreme cheapskate-ism from. I fear lack of money more than the ridicule of people who are usually broke keeping up the appearance of wealth.