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Men check out women too. -- Especially their boobs, and talk about them at "happy hours"
Yes, as Executive Officer at an ammunition plant I received (unsolicited) input into the hiring of the security chief and chief engineer from female staff such as 'he is too good looking not to hire."
During a wilder stage of life I had a young bisexual nymphomaniac stripper girlfriend. It was a change to be walking down a street and realize your girlfriend was eyeing boobs more than you, and for similar reason.
Despite the femanazi rhetoric and boiler plate, women are sexual beings also. Around 30, especially after a divorce, even though most still look good, they figure out that they will not have loads of male attention just by possessing a set of decent tits and and ass. (Well, some don't have to, but most). That BTW is why women this age are ideal partners, FWB, even for younger males).
An unlikely number of new random women just happen to walk by and look into the room where I'm being interviewed, no doubt informed explicitly or implicitly by the other women that there is a new man to evaluate. They cannot let the competition get there first! They smile and say hello, as if that were normal on the street. But it's not.
The receptionists and HR women clearly have those jobs partly because it's a way to check out a continuous stream of men for short- or long-term mating potential
Don't rock the boat. This is how I got every job I've ever had.
I had a young bisexual nymphomaniac stripper girlfriend
Add in daddy issues and bi-polar disorder, and you have my dating search profile.
there's a feeling I'm being watched, judged, and talked about.
Unless you are spectacularly good looking or potentially the new head of their department, I doubt it.
Why do you think I'd rather bang whores?
A lot of this stuff is a bunch of crap, just cannon fodder for a future lawsuit.
Why do you think I'd rather bang whores?
Because a woman might be looking at you through a window? Here's a tip... Just be flattered. A girl noticed you. What's the big deal? Does it have to mean something scary?
Why do you think I'd rather bang whores?
Because you can't find a regular girlfriend, so your only other choice is to pay for companionship...
So sad...
Says the guy who finds his companionship at the petting zoo and cemeteries.
Here's a tip... Just be flattered.
TD and others, you don't get it ... I don't pay for companionship. I have plenty of companions.
I pay for a boink, and a boink only, no false rape charges there.
there's a feeling I'm being watched, judged, and talked about.
Unless you are spectacularly good looking or potentially the new head of their department, I doubt it.
Please note that well, resistance: Only women are allowed to imagine and pretend out loud that men find them irresistible (!) even when said women are far from spectacularly good looking.
Don't judge me
Don't rape me
I owe you nothing
Women are individuals
No more violence against women...
You're right. These are foolish ideas. I can see why you find it so offensive.
As for looking at an attractive guy, give me a break. How many women have you drooled over in your lifetime (or men, if that's your thing)? How many women have caused you to go temporarily brain dead? We're not all that different. We make stupid choices over hotties just like you do. It's really not a mystery. We've all lost our trains-of-thought after a hit from cupid's arrow. I like to think I'm above all that at this point in my life... and for the most part, I would say that's the case. Then just yesterday, my gardener was putting down new sod in my backyard. His 27-year-old son was helping him out. He is so unbelievably cute! OMgoodness! Makes me want to go out there and mess up my new lawn.
Only women are allowed to imagine and pretend out loud that men find them irresistible
Pretend away!... No one is stopping you. No one cares. He can pretend all those women are really drooling over him... In my opinion if he isn't really good looking or about to be hired for a position that could impact their lives then it's probably in his head. I'm not judging him. I'm stating what I believe to be the most likely reality. What's more likely:
Everyone wants him?
or
He's imagining a "hunt" when in reality, at best, it's more like spectators at a zoo who naturally look up when the tiger comes into view through the window?
I have known a lot of macho men who thump their chest and talk about how dominant they are. When their wives walk in, they turn into quivering, whimpering honey-do jellies.
It's pretty strange to see the posturing vs. the reality.
Only women are allowed to imagine and pretend out loud that men find them irresistible
Pretend away!... No one is stopping you. No one cares.
Maybe you don't care, but I can assure you that society as a whole does to a large extent. When is the last time you saw a bunch of guys on facebook making fake compliments to each other about how Hott! they are, like women do to each other all the time? What might be the reason it does not happen?
I can assure you, if guys started doing that, women would care. A lot.
there's a feeling I'm being watched, judged, and talked about.
Unless you are spectacularly good looking or potentially the new head of their department, I doubt it.
Please note that well, resistance: Only women are allowed to imagine and pretend out loud that men find them irresistible (!) even when said women are far from spectacularly good looking.
His 27-year-old son was helping him out. He is so unbelievably cute! OMgoodness! Makes me want to go out there and mess up my new lawn.
He's (ED: Resistance) imagining a "hunt" when in reality, at best, it's more like spectators at a zoo who naturally look up when the tiger comes into view through the window?
Okay, so you have decided that Resistance, the man, can't possibly be anything like Sod27, the sod-boy from your back yard. I wonder if Sod27 felt like he was just the new animal in the zoo or a bona-fide sex object?
Okay, so you have decided that Resistance, the man, can't possibly be anything like Sod27, the sod-boy from your back yard. I wonder if Sod27 felt like he was just the new animal in the zoo or a bona-fide sex object?
Well, he came back today to double check his work, so I guess he wasn't too scarred by the experience of a passing appreciative glance.
On a more general note, notice how turtledove is using generic shaming tactics on this thread. When Resistance says something she does not want to be true, she starts shaming him and saying that it is unlikely that he is hot enough to be an ogle-object of the female employees.
Nowhere does she acknowledge the double standard of allowing HR women ogling the new male interviewees without complaint, saying that basically "it is all in your head". The "it's all in your head" by the way, is known as "gaslighting", and is a favorite term of feminists. Except they never apply the term when men are the victims, which happens all the time.
Well, he came back today to double check his work, so I guess he wasn't too scarred by the experience of a passing appreciative glance.
Either that, or perhaps he needed the money. Did you make sure to double-check his ass while he was working the sod?
Nowhere does she acknowledge the double standard of allowing HR women ogling the new male interviewees without complaint, saying that basically "it is all in your head". The "it's all in your head" by the way, is known as "gaslighting", and is a favorite term of feminists. Except they never apply the term when men are the victims, which happens all the time.
I would have said the same thing if a woman came on here talking about how all the men were "on the hunt" and bemoaning how all the men want her. It's delusional no matter who says it.
Either that, or perhaps he needed the money. Did you make sure to double-check his ass while he was working the sod?
Nah... I paid them yesterday when the work was done. It was a quick visit. He just checked his work, asked me if I had any concerns about any of it, and left. Sorry to disappoint you. All I said was that he's cute. I'm not sure how that translates into groping him with my eyes. There are a lot of looks that fall between passing acknowledgment and an obsessive comatose stare. What I think is interesting is that you don't seem to see a difference. You think that any woman who glances your way is obsessed with you. That's beyond absurd. Everyone who looks your way isn't trying to figure out how she can marry you... or take advantage of you in any way. Anyone, male or female, who thinks that everyone is trying to get into their pants and take advantage of them is suffering from serious delusions. Even the really good looking ones. The self centeredness it requires in order to believe that everyone is in love with you is an unattractive quality no matter what a person looks like. Most normal people would find that pretty repellent in very short order.
What I think is interesting is that you don't seem to see a difference. You think that any woman who glances your way is obsessed with you. That's beyond absurd
Exactly. That is what us have been saying for decades. Just because a man looks at you and thinks you are hot-he did not rape you mentally or magically turn you into a sex doll/object. It is nature-you enjoy the sunset, flowers or a breathtaking women or some jiggling bouncy boobs.
Men never cared either, but then since this was made PC and men called rapists for the said act, men are just saying hey-women indulge in the same too. That if it is mental rape for one gender, then should it not be mental rape for the other gender too?
Remember we live in a world where a woman got a restraining order against david letterman, because she claimed in court docs that he was harassing her through his TV show and sending coded signals through TV or some such. Some judge actually gave her the restraining order. That is the world feminazis have created and men are saying -hey all these things you accuse us of-you do it yourselves-so what is the big deal? or does it matter only if men do it???
I don't believe that everyone is in love with me. I do believe that most people have inherent sex drive, and desires, much more aligned with mine. For whatever reason, society embraced dumb ass puritanical nonsense that one should be ashamed of it. And from that, all of this suffering abounds
Yep... There are times when I'm out and about with my wife, and she'll catch me checking out a hot woman. My response is, 'I might be married, but I'm not dead"... Life's too short to worry about the little issues....
Exactly. I said to my husband yesterday, "isn't Fernando's son a hottie?" To which my husband replied, "he's not my type." I made a joke about messing up the lawn so he'd have to come back and redo it... We laughed. End of story. Doubtless, explaining this to apparently socially awkward people will be fruitless. They are certain that the female world really is after them.... so obviously, nothing I could say could ever be right.
I have had thousands and thousands of female clients, working in close quarters with them, and never once did anything come up where the women acted like something was wrong or inappropriate, even when there were awkward moments.
Most women are pretty pragmatic beings on the whole. They don't like it if you treat them like a neuter, because they like the idea that they can get something for nothing or get one over for their sexuality, but if they are treated as a neuter, they will have a brief snit and then act like a neuter.
Of course, I was afraid of all of them, so maybe they knew they had the upper hand.
Who is saying that you cannot? A loud minority? Do you really fear that looking at a women will result in a rape allegation? Do you really feel that there's an epidemic of rape allegations against guys who simply look at women?
That it happens and women started the crap is what I am saying and so men are just throwing it back at women. Heck two men have been arrested in NY for manspreading-it is happening -the feminazis start this crap and then when men throw it back at them-become all coy and innocent like.
Unfortunately men live in the world of mattress girl-it is not some local minority, but the law that one has to be cognizant about. In college I had a nice affair with a wild chick. She gave me a few hints, didn't take it. One day in the computer room-way back then-she gave me a nice shoulder/neck massage with her boobs brushing against me. Boy did I get the message-we had a great time for a while and drifted apart later on. Now if the genders were reversed-the male can be arrested for sexual assault etc etc etc. There is a double standard and all men are saying is -either knock it off or accept to be judged by the same standards.
Don't judge me
Don't rape me
I owe you nothing
Women are individuals
No more violence against women...You're right. These are foolish ideas.
It's the alpha male in the second pane who would do all those things. The beta males in the first pane aren't. That's the point.
Dang, I mean I don't care if my wife gets hot and bothered looking at some handsome guy on tv or whatever, as long as she takes out those feelings on me! It's happened before, and I'll tell you a secret: I have watched a few shows I didn't like all that much just for the effect a leading dude had on her!
Sometimes women like to look, too. Just because their primary turn-ons aren't as visual as mens' are, doesn't mean they don't work that way sometimes. That's why I try to keep myself reasonably in shape!
It's the alpha male in the second pane who would do all those things. The beta males in the first pane aren't. That's the point.
I get it. And if you read my next paragraph it says that both men and women have made poor partner choices at times when struck by cupid's arrow. But at the end of the day, most intelligent people don't really want a self-obsessed life partner who mistreats them. Further, most intelligent people want more than a one-dimensional Barbie/Ken. So, yes it's funny. We've all been there. But when the hormones settle, I just don't think that scenario depicted in the cartoon has the long-range sticking power to be generalized in a truly meaningful way.
Prowling Women, take me, take me! Where are they all!
That's easy. You just need to get inside of the imaginations of certain men. Just don't stay too long. I wouldn't want you to return to us wanting Hilary for president.
But at the end of the day, most intelligent people don't really want a self-obsessed life partner who mistreats them.
Sure, once women reach 30, but it's not 30-year-old women shooting "don't rape me" at beta males on college campuses who are in no way rapists while drooling over the very alpha males that are. I'd be shock if less than 98% of rapes on college campuses are committed by anyone other than alpha males or "bad boys". And women who sleep with bad boys are promoting the very rape culture they blame on innocent beta males. Women who reproduce with bad boys biologically contribute to the problem passing on both the trait of sexual aggression in males and the preference for that trait in females.
To end rape, women must stop sleeping with the sexually aggressive kind of men who rape. Genes matter. Rewarding some males with reproduction and punishing others with the lack of it is the very mechanism of selection of genes. The more beta males who reproduce instead of alpha males, the less rape in each successive generation until there is no more. In contrast, women having babies with bad boys, which happens often, increases sexual violence in all subsequent generations. The human race has not stopped evolving because we have iPhones.
...that you're talking out of your ass again... but that's just another day on Patnet with you!
Once again you have a man's ass on his mind. You should just come out of the closet already.
He can pretend all those women are really drooling over him... In my opinion if he isn't really good looking or about to be hired for a position that could impact their lives then it's probably in his head.
Didn't say drooling, or that I was good looking. Just said that women have this perhaps hypocritical pattern of behavior where they are constantly checking out and evaluating the new guy while pretending they are not.
But I have noticed that since I got into lifting weights and grew a beard that the interest level from them is higher than it was. Not imagining things.
Didn't say drooling, or that I was good looking. Just said that women have this perhaps hypocritical pattern of behavior where they are constantly checking out and evaluating the new guy while pretending they are not.
But I have noticed that since I got into lifting weights and grew a beard that the interest level from them is higher than it was. Not imagining things.
Okay, that's fair... but looking at you and plotting your capture aren't the same thing. Enjoy the attention. If it makes you happy, pursue it. If it doesn't, cut her lose.
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When interviewing at a new company, I alway notice a small flurry of interest in me by all the women who I come into contact with.
The effect seems subtle until once aware of it, but then it's unmistakable and not subtle at all. From the receptionist to the HR woman to potential co-workers, there's a feeling I'm being watched, judged, and talked about. An unlikely number of new random women just happen to walk by and look into the room where I'm being interviewed, no doubt informed explicitly or implicitly by the other women that there is a new man to evaluate. They cannot let the competition get there first! They smile and say hello, as if that were normal on the street. But it's not.
The receptionists and HR women clearly have those jobs partly because it's a way to check out a continuous stream of men for short- or long-term mating potential, and a way to block hot women from getting jobs there through various deliberate accidents and omissions in their application and interviews.
Alas, within a few days or weeks of starting a new job, the women have all had their look or chat, and their attention is back to checking out whatever new man comes in the front door, smiling and saying hello at him now.