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indc says

ok, If someone points out a deficiency you can take it as constructive criticism or as bitching. I dont have any malice so I think I am not bitching.

Understood, I would feel quite comfortable having this conversation with you over a beer, and neither would take what the other said any other way than just banter between friends.
I was in a band with a guy onetime, we were like best friends, and agreed on everything. When we started coordinating and scheduling via email, it went to hell quick. For some reason, he took everything as a flame, a shootdown, a complaint or a gripe. Where before we would just brainstorm and bounce ideas off each other if we were face to face.

I blame email and the lack of face to face communication over the demise of that friendship and music collaboration.

indc says

As far as me moving back it is an option I have to keep open because there is lot of hindu hatred here in US.

I don't think so, it's not the Hindus it's job displacement. Notice people act and treat the Indian at the corner store different, than they do the Indian on our phone wanting to talk to us about personal information, banking issues, and other sensitive issues that require your SS number.