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Take Father In Law's Offer?


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2014 Oct 6, 4:30am   24,540 views  58 comments

by OnTheFence   ➕follow (0)   💰tip   ignore  

Hi,

My Father in law made me an offer to find a home in an area with good schools that will be something we can live in 5-10 years. He would take care of the purchase price and payments, we would be on the hook for utilities and maintenance.

First off, this is an incredibly generous offer, so I'm thankful for this. A bit about our situation:

-1 year old daughter (the reason for the offer)
-Currently in a large 1 bedroom apartment in Inner Richmond (94118)
-$1,200 / M in cost, with very small electric cost, no water, no garbage bill
-We've been saving for a while, and we wanted to buy in the next few years, possibly in S.Cal if everything works according to plan.

I said thank you and would look into it, but I have a couple of thoughts that creep up in my head.

1. We should be able to save money every month assuming there are no major repairs on the horizon that we'd be responsible for.

2. If we choose an area with a great public school system we will save money on a private school (which we would strongly consider in the our area)

3. If we wanted to move to S.Cal and the market starts to dip, would I really be free to move without my father in law either taking a hit?

4. I've always heard to not mix family and money, and I never have. Anyone have experience with something like this that ended up turning into a "wish we never would have" scenarios.

5. I could be letting my pride get in the way of a good family decision, am I?

6. I'm saving 1,500 a month by staying in this apartment, do I really need to risk introducing a scenario where I feel I now "owe" this man something.....again, this could be Pride kicking my butt.

Thanks,

SF

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57   one timer   2014 Oct 8, 9:34am  

Re: 45 minutes later, he left with his head spinning...

Hey callitcrazy, longtime lurker here and I thought I knew who you were, but due to this story, now I'm sure of it.

By buddy married your daughter and repeatedly told me of that 45 minute conversation. Want to know how he got back at you? Well, one day when he was done mouthfucking your little girl he sprayed a massive load on her face. Then, as some sort of roleplaying game they were into he used a spoon from YOUR KITCHEN to scoop it up and feed it to her.

He held onto that spoon, wiped it up just enough to appear clean, then swapped it out at your seat at the dinner table when no one was looking. Later, he saw you scoop a bite, draw it into your mouth, and he just sat back and smiled. And to think, you just thought your wife's soup was just a little "salty" that day :)

58   turtledove   2014 Oct 8, 9:50am  

one timer says

Re: 45 minutes later, he left with his head spinning...

Hey callitcrazy, longtime lurker here and I thought I knew who you were, but due to this story, now I'm sure of it.

By buddy married your daughter and repeatedly told me of that 45 minute conversation. Want to know how he got back at you? Well, one day when he was done mouthfucking your little girl he sprayed a massive load on her face. Then, as some sort of roleplaying game they were into he used a spoon from YOUR KITCHEN to scoop it up and feed it to her.

He held onto that spoon, wiped it up just enough to appear clean, then swapped it out at your seat at the dinner table when no one was looking. Later, he saw you scoop a bite, draw it into your mouth, and he just sat back and smiled. And to think, you just thought your wife's soup was just a little "salty" that day :)

Creepy; stalker-like; rude; and foul-mouthed.... Surely you aren't single!

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