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Why the hell is gay sex immoral?


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2012 Nov 14, 3:22am   198,244 views  878 comments

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This question goes out to all the people who actually believe that gay sex is immoral. I am formally challenging that belief. If any of you honestly believe that gay sex is immoral, give your reasons here. I reserve the right to challenge the validity of those reasons.

Attendance by Bap33 is mandatory. By the way, that avatar is pretty gay for someone who's homophobic.

Just saying...

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739   Dan8267   2012 Dec 11, 4:07am  

Peter P says

You decide for yourself what is moral and ethical.

Can you decide that rape or slavery is ethical? I think not.

Tim Lee Berners should be a billionaire. He invented the World Wide Web. The Koch Brothers should not be billionaires. They siphoned wealth from their employees, from the tax payers, from society in general by polluting our environment, which is a form of public property theft.

How one makes money does matter, at least to some of us. How much money would it take for you to kill someone? What if you killed that person by polluting the food chain with mercury like coal power companies? If the way you murdered someone made it perfectly legal, how much money would it take for you to end someone's life knowing that you would never be punished for it?

740   Peter P   2012 Dec 11, 4:10am  

Self-limiting thoughts.

Anything can be subjectively moral. This is why we have a market to arbitrate expectations and conflicts.

741   MisdemeanorRebel   2012 Dec 11, 4:12am  

Blaming poverty on bad ethics is the oldest, most bullshit canard there ever was.

It's usually made by people who inherited their wealth and live off rents.

742   Peter P   2012 Dec 11, 4:14am  

Do not confuse bad ethics with bad meta-ethics.

One has to do with not following a code. The other has to do with bad code.

743   anonymous   2012 Dec 11, 4:14am  

I could sell bags of heroin to addicts until the sun burns out, reaping handsome profits

Would you suggest to another to emulate my actions, just because I am rich?

744   Peter P   2012 Dec 11, 4:20am  

errc says

I could sell bags of heroin to addicts until the sun burns out, reaping handsome profits

Would you suggest to another to emulate my actions, just because I am rich?

But would you? It is perfectly valid that you consider that immoral. But it is possibly moral for someone else.

In either case there is law and other complications.

745   Peter P   2012 Dec 11, 4:23am  

My point is, do not inherit a moral code. Think and create one that works for you. Never let people tell you what is right or wrong. Be a moral person crafted out of your individuality.

746   anonymous   2012 Dec 11, 4:31am  

Peter P says

My point is, do not inherit a moral code. Think and create one that works for you. Never let people tell you what is right or wrong. Be a moral person crafted out of your individuality.

Hilarious coming from the same person that has posted numerous times that what is legal is ok, and what is illegal is not.

The best advice you've ever given, is not to take advice from anyone

747   Peter P   2012 Dec 11, 4:34am  

Legality is part of taking responsibilities.

It may or may not be part of the moral system you build.

748   anonymous   2012 Dec 11, 4:43am  

Peter P says

My point is, do not inherit a moral code. Think and create one that works for you. Never let people tell you what is right or wrong. Be a moral person crafted out of your individuality.

Legality is other peoples construct

Your contradicting yourself left and right, here

Its damn near impossible to never let people tell you what is right or wrong, whilst simultaneously considering the legality of ones own actions

749   Bap33   2012 Dec 11, 4:44am  

errc says

Endocrinologist cure homosexuality?

They cure/medicate gland defects.
Gland defects make males act/feel feminine.
So, if you are suggesting that having a gland disorder that makes a male act/feel feminine is called "homosexual", then that would be an obvious, "yes", Endrcrinologists "cure" gay males by the millions with gland therapy.

They are not the choice for trying to treat the mental conditions that surround male/male coupling. The mental disorders found in the population, that is active in the male/male coupling world, are not all part of their perversion.

750   Bap33   2012 Dec 11, 4:48am  

Dan8267 says

Prove to me that homosexual desire is "twisted". Hell, define what that even means.

I should have used "deviant"? Queer? Perverted? Tainted? Sick? Unnatural? We both know that any word I use would be pointed at and scoffed at by you. Right? Right. These poor folks need help.

751   Peter P   2012 Dec 11, 4:49am  

errc says

Peter P says

My point is, do not inherit a moral code. Think and create one that works for you. Never let people tell you what is right or wrong. Be a moral person crafted out of your individuality.

Legality is other peoples construct

Your contradicting yourself left and right, here

Its damn near impossible to never let people tell you what is right or wrong, whilst simultaneously considering the legality of ones own actions

But the respect of such is your own.

752   MisdemeanorRebel   2012 Dec 11, 5:56am  

Peter P, are you a relativist conservative? No sarcasm, that's pretty damn interesting.

753   Peter P   2012 Dec 11, 6:01am  

I am a subjectivist. Relativism is still external, just not absolute.

754   curious2   2012 Dec 11, 6:22am  

Bap33 says

Endrcrinologists "cure" gay males by the millions with gland therapy.

So, Bop69, which endocrinologist "cured" you by turning you into a troll that types obsessively about gay male sex instead of just going out and getting some?

755   turtledove   2012 Dec 11, 6:34am  

curious2 says

Bap33 says

Endrcrinologists "cure" gay males by the millions with gland therapy.

So, Bop69, which endocrinologist "cured" you by turning you into a troll that types obsessively about gay male sex instead of just going out and getting some?

Hey... There's a tea for that.

756   anonymous   2012 Dec 11, 9:22am  

To answer the question, gay sex is immoral because the mere thought of male/male coupling gives me a raging hard on, and I'm afraid to find out why. Does anyone know of a good endocronologist? Preferably male,,,tall, muscular, with long hair,,,,

757   everything   2012 Dec 11, 9:58am  

It's just plain dirty, but my gay neighbor sure does know how to make me feel like I'm really something else, my ass is great, face, skin, legs, heck I'm just plain beautiful, take great care of myself, and look ten years younger than my age. Pretty crazy feminist world we live in when a man is getting more compliments and looks from the men than the women. Women, they don't seem to care what you look like as long as you got the money. Times they are a changing.

758   Bap33   2012 Dec 11, 10:39am  

robertoaribas says

Bap33 says



I should have used "deviant"? Queer? Perverted? Tainted? Sick? Unnatural? We both know that any word I use would be pointed at and scoffed at by you. Right? Right. These poor folks need help.


actually the pointing and scoffing is at you. I thought you set your stupid worthless trash bar as high as you could, years ago, when you posted how mexicans where inferior, but you are topping even yourself on this thread. You are the most disgusting person ever to come on this blog, and a gross person in every way.

1) your mama
2) I never said mexicans were inferior.
3) I know you are, but what am I? You freaky cerchino marrano.
4) Haven't been called gross since 2nd grade. wow.

761   Warsaw Legend   2012 Dec 16, 11:13am  

Yes, gay sex is immoral. It's immoral today for the same reason it was immoral 100, even 10,000 years ago. That is, because it's an absolute violation of both natural reason and human dignity (yes, that includes your dignity -- even though, understandably -- you're likely unwilling to recognize that).

Your suggestion about the practice "not hurting anyone" has no bearing on its otherwise intrinsically incomplete status. Nonetheless, the practice -- even when confined privately -- does in fact hurt others -- albeit, indirectly.

But the more intriguing question here, is, why do you care about what strangers think about where you engender your penis? I'd much rather learn (alternatively) about how you're joining queers and non-queers alike in contributing to a better society and how you're bringing people of various backgrounds and beliefs together, rather than creating politically polarized silos of fear.

762   MisdemeanorRebel   2012 Dec 16, 11:41pm  

Warsaw Legend says

Yes, gay sex is immoral. It's immoral today for the same reason it was immoral 100, even 10,000 years ago. That is, because it's an absolute violation of both natural reason and human dignity (yes, that includes your dignity -- even though, understandably -- you're likely unwilling to recognize that).

So gay penguins, dogs, and parakeets are immoral?

Warsaw Legend says

Your suggestion about the practice "not hurting anyone" has no bearing on its otherwise intrinsically incomplete status. Nonetheless, the practice -- even when confined privately -- does in fact hurt others -- albeit, indirectly.

Heterosexuality hurts people too: Jealous lovers killing their partner, acrimonious divorces and child custody fights, Stalkers, Spousal Abuse, spreads STDs, etc.

We'd all love to hear HOW homosexuality is immoral, in objective terms relevant to the modern world that does not reference the philosophy of Bronze Age goatroasters.

763   Bap33   2012 Dec 17, 12:04am  

thunderlips11 says

in objective terms relevant to the modern world

I see this as a bad idea, and I think most sober-minded conservative adults agree. I think it takes a "shades of gray" mind-set to want to move the measure of acceptability as society's mind-set changes. Maybe it is because I beleive in absolutes, and that includes right and wrong, black and white. It could be that this very thing you bring up is where the division between people such as myself and , say Dan, comes in?

One thing that you may agree with is how the general population's gene pool, and mental competence, is going to continue to slide down hill in America - on average - because the most prolific breeders in the nation do not exibit strong skill sets for education or any other building blocks of society, other than hyper-breeding. So, in the near future, if the line of moral/immoral is allowed to be moved "relevant to the modern world", then the line may end up in a very very bad place due to the degragation of the general populous -- who is who you suggest be able to set their own line for morality, without regard to the view you defend and express today, in much the same way you do not want to use the view that Jesus defended and expressed 2,000 years ago.

Man, I sure hope I wrote that well enough for you to understand my point so you will respond. If it makes no sense, read it again please. It's me, it's not you.! lol

764   Dan8267   2012 Dec 17, 4:08am  

Warsaw Legend says

Yes, gay sex is immoral. It's immoral today for the same reason it was immoral 100, even 10,000 years ago. That is, because it's an absolute violation of both natural reason and human dignity (yes, that includes your dignity -- even though, understandably -- you're likely unwilling to recognize that).

Assertion 1: Homosexual sex violates natural reason.
Assertion 2: Homosexual sex violates human dignity.

I understand what assertion 2 means, but how exactly does homosexual sex violate human dignity? If Bob and Joe deeply love each other, how are they suffering an indignation when making love?

There are certainly many things in our society that do violate human dignity every single day including prisons, strip searches, virtual strip searches at TSA scanners, and TSA pat downs just to name a few. I'd consider all those things to be immoral. And since they are forced on people, I'd consider them all to be illegal as violating basic human rights. But how exactly does consensual gay sex dehumanize a person?

Regarding assertion 1, exactly what do you mean by natural reason and exactly how does gay sex violate this?

Warsaw Legend says

Your suggestion about the practice "not hurting anyone" has no bearing on its otherwise intrinsically incomplete status

WTF does that mean?

Warsaw Legend says

Nonetheless, the practice -- even when confined privately -- does in fact hurt others -- albeit, indirectly.

Precisely who is being hurt and how?

Warsaw Legend says

I'd much rather learn (alternatively) about how you're joining queers and non-queers alike in contributing to a better society and how you're bringing people of various backgrounds and beliefs together, rather than creating politically polarized silos of fear.

By asking those who believe that homosexual sex is immoral to state why they believe this, I am getting them to question that belief. If the belief is correct, then it should be easy to answer why it is correct. If the belief is not correct, then it is best to demonstrate this by showing there is no justification for that belief.

So far, no one has come up with anything that remotely held up to even light scrutiny, deferring analysis of your submission until its clarified.

765   Peter P   2012 Dec 17, 4:11am  

Warsaw Legend says

Yes, gay sex is immoral. It's immoral today for the same reason it was immoral 100, even 10,000 years ago. That is, because it's an absolute violation of both natural reason and human dignity (yes, that includes your dignity -- even though, understandably -- you're likely unwilling to recognize that).

Your suggestion about the practice "not hurting anyone" has no bearing on its otherwise intrinsically incomplete status. Nonetheless, the practice -- even when confined privately -- does in fact hurt others -- albeit, indirectly.

But the more intriguing question here, is, why do you care about what strangers think about where you engender your penis? I'd much rather learn (alternatively) about how you're joining queers and non-queers alike in contributing to a better society and how you're bringing people of various backgrounds and beliefs together, rather than creating politically polarized silos of fear.

The very existence of humanity is artificial and therefore unnatural.

766   Dan8267   2012 Dec 17, 4:15am  

Bap33 says

think it takes a "shades of gray" mind-set to want to move the measure of acceptability as society's mind-set changes.

Morality is gray. There are degrees of goodness and evilness. Certainly, it is far more evil to rape someone than to slap him/her in the face. Certainly, it is far more selfless to sacrifice one's life for another than to give a bum a dollar. Both acts are good, but one is far more so.

So, if by shades of gray, you mean there are degrees of good and evil, then certainly this is so.

There are also trade-offs in life. Sometimes you have to choose the lesser of two evils, the greater of two goods, or one of two options each with a mixture of good and evil consequences. For example, do you increase the food supply of a country preventing thousands from starving knowing that the population will grow as a result and eventually tens of thousands of people will be starving, or do you let the people starving now continue to do so in order to prevent the population rise? Sometimes, there are no options that contain only good.

767   Bap33   2012 Dec 17, 1:36pm  

Dan8267 says

If any of you honestly believe that gay sex is immoral, give your reasons here.

Dan8267 says

Morality is gray.

Does this mean your original question had no possible right answer?

768   Dan8267   2012 Dec 18, 12:05am  

Bap33 says

Dan8267 says

If any of you honestly believe that gay sex is immoral, give your reasons here.

Dan8267 says

Morality is gray.

Does this mean your original question had no possible right answer?

No. In some situations, the morally correct choice is clear. You don't drown the puppy in the river. In other situations, the morally correct choice is not clear. Do you save the people currently starving at the cost of increasing starvation in the future?

The application of moral principles in a chaotic and messy environment, i.e. life, can and does create dilemmas, situations where you can't get a wholly desirable outcome regardless of which choice you make. Life is full of these dilemmas. That is why applying morality in a black-and-white fashion is always doomed to fail.

770   Bap33   2012 Dec 18, 6:31am  

Dan8267 says

No. In some situations, the morally correct choice is clear. You don't drown the puppy in the river

Dan8267 says

That is why applying morality in a black-and-white fashion is always doomed to fail.

I am having trouble following your point.

771   Dan8267   2012 Dec 18, 7:11am  

Bap33 says

I am having trouble following your point.

What liberals and leftists and most academics call "moral gray areas" really refers to the application of morality in complex situations where some moral prerogatives conflict with others rather than the morals themselves being gray.

For example, we want to save the lives of babies. That's a good moral prerogative that no one could argue with. We also are morally appalled at eugenics and the idea of forcing medical procedures on people against their consent especially if such procedures create a permanent material change.

So what if there is a way to save babies from a variety of diseases, but doing so requires altering their DNA while they are still embryos. Is it morally acceptable to force all mothers to undergo a procedure that many would not want, a procedure that would alter their baby's DNA, if doing so would reduce infant mortality by 90%? What about for other percentages?

This is what is meant by moral gray areas. It's the area, not the morals, that are gray. I.e., the application of the morals is not straight forward and requires considerable reflection. Life isn't black and white so simple kindergarten mindsets are not adequate for determining right and wrong.

772   Bap33   2012 Dec 19, 11:55am  

and that is pretty much why we disagree on the basics of life. But, no worries. Merry Christmas.

773   Tenpoundbass   2012 Dec 20, 12:23am  

Bap33 says

Merry Christmas.

Would that be "Merry" as in happy and Gay, or Ho Ho Ho?

774   Bap33   2012 Dec 20, 1:33am  

as in gay

775   Tenpoundbass   2012 Dec 21, 4:12am  

Finally an answer to this question.

"When freedom to be creative becomes the freedom to create oneself, then necessarily the Maker himself is denied and ultimately man too is stripped of his dignity as a creature of God," Benedict said.

Finally it's about time, the man in the silly hat has been silent on this for far too long.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/12/21/pope-anti-gay-speech_n_2344870.html

776   Peter P   2012 Dec 21, 6:34am  

Dan8267 says

What liberals and leftists and most academics call "moral gray areas" really refers to the application of morality in complex situations where some moral prerogatives conflict with others rather than the morals themselves being gray.

Or I think "morality" has been over-used. For example, homosexuality has nothing to do with morality.

(It is as morally-relevant as making a painting. Some may find it beautiful. Some may call it rubbish.)

777   Peter P   2012 Dec 21, 6:41am  

Dan8267 says

For example, we want to save the lives of babies. That's a good moral prerogative that no one could argue with. We also are morally appalled at eugenics and the idea of forcing medical procedures on people against their consent especially if such procedures create a permanent material change.

This is just a fallacy of deontological ethics.

778   121212   2012 Dec 21, 7:44am  

two consenting adults having sex is nobody's business

two consenting adults want to get married, it's nobody's business

for the government to limit the rights of some ,so it makes others feel more comfortable is unconstitutional.

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