There are various complex reasons why some women may stay in abusive relationships. These can include fear, financial dependence, cultural or societal pressures, lack of support networks, low self-esteem, hope for change, or feeling trapped. It's important to provide support and resources for those in abusive situations to help them safely leave and rebuild their lives.
I've been psychologically and financially abused; as a man I'm supposed to just smile and take it. The price of admission to the game of love is females toying with your feelings and spending your money. I've never punched any of the girls although it was a tempting idea sometimes.
Men are disposable, because all a woman needs is one Chad's sperm to perpetuate the next generation. The rest of men can go DIAF,
I had a fascinating discussion with my wife today. I think we tentatively agreed that the difference between men and women is that men largely control their bodies, while women are controlled by their bodies (periods, "unwanted" pregnancies, etc.) and that might be what leads to lots of women having eating disorders or cutting, etc. It's a way for women to feel in control of themselves.
In a larger sense, this is perhaps why women can be happy raising children and grandchildren. This is the time they can be in control. They can't control themselves, but they can control their children.
"I won't cook, I won't clean, I am the Table. Give me this, give me that, support my career, all my decisions, provide for me, do ALL the ouside and half the inside labor, every bill is your final responsibility no matter how much I spent frivolously and can't pay my share or even the bills for my own phone...
Also listen to all my gossip and watch only my shows and do things on my schedule.
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