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It's interesting that an article like this is in a magazine--Men's Health--that purports to emphasize good health practices because it seems to me this is just an even better way to raise your chances of getting an STD. And I've always thought of things like this as having a big Ick factor along with the people who practice them. Are they really that clean?

The article just strikes me as another attempt to undermine family formation.

Traditional families are power against the oligarchy, and the oligarchy doesn't like that.

Patrick says

another attempt to undermine family formation

Democrat Daniel Patrick Moynihan gave it a name over 50 years ago as the counterculture was getting under way: the normalization of deviancy.

Yes, Life is just a wonderful porno flick without menstruation, crabby women, or e-coli impacted into the prostate from anal sex. No such thing as jealousy, loyalty, breeding competition, interpersonal obsession, or extreme emotions around sex.

Pick yourself up a couple of sex partners and it will all work out. What could possibly go wrong?

Have a friend who who tried that. He’s divorced now, messily, and has to pay big money to the ex.
Not worth it.

Animals don't need to marry or delay gratifications.
Liberals should just ditch "Homo sapiens" rather than doing piece by piece.

This is nothing but self-hate to self-destroy.

There is the concept of multiple wives in other cultures, even today. But we're so tied up in sexual knots thanks to Puritanism, I don't think that's an easy transition in the US.

And yes, I think the main point of this article is to undermine the nuclear family. They want government to be our family, fucking sick.

I prefer monogamy although I am not married, I like being close to the girlfriend.
The problem is it seems lately the girls have other ideas sometimes. This is a danger of dating a cute girl, she believes she has super powers and wants to use them.
I am in Mexico and if a girl says she’s your “novia” it means she’s serious about you.
She tells others about it and expects other girls to stay away.

Patrick says

The article just strikes me as another attempt to undermine family formation.

Traditional families are power against the oligarchy, and the oligarchy doesn't like that.

Yep and as mentioned already on this thread, simply breaking up with an ex, spouse gets brutally messy and far worse with kids involved. Problem is most womyn are batshit crazy these days and self-delusional on their worth to society, the recent barrage from the trans community has not made much of a dent yet in their inflated egos from decades of feminism propaganda. My advice would be to refrain from getting married but still drafting a good contract for a well-oiled nuclear family if you want to have kids, or get married by the faith of your choice only, or just be darn sure. If you don't want to have kids, go the Rin way. While it's great fun to shag your rocks off in your best years, the more womyn you get involved with, the more insanity you will have to deal with. So this article is a minefield for both men and women, but esp. for men. Globohomo proaganda, nothing else.

"Orgy-porgy"

Sex or no sex, I can only handle one lunatic at a time.

NDrLoR says

Patrick says

another attempt to undermine family formation

the normalization of deviancy.

Bingo

That deviancy does not promote health, stability, or the longest life possible even though it can make you pretty damn satisfied temporarily if you are one or the small minority of men who can get sex from different women on a regular basis.

Marriage and monogamy is in itself a trade from excitement to stability.

Having one wife is exhausting enough! Last thing I need is to have to grovel for intimacy from TWO different women!

#dadbod
#sarcasam

Just gross. Spread STIs & empower the Healthcare Stasi even more. Manipulating our basic drives is key to social control.

A wife is a bottomless pit of NEED that no man will ever be able to completely fill. Adding another wife to the bargain would mean twice the work. Although the Africans say that three wives is the magic number where they’re too busy picking on each other to pick on you, so a man can get some peace.

Shaman says

A wife is a bottomless pit of NEED that no man will ever be able to completely fill. Adding another wife to the bargain would mean twice the work. Although the Africans say that three wives is the magic number where they’re too busy picking on each other to pick on you, so a man can get some peace.

lol

Their job is to lash you relentlessly for resources for whatever shred of ass you can get out of them. The idea that it is a sharing loving experience rather than a negotiated conquest of their womb is 'capture press' to bring men to ground with the contract. There are always terms with consideration. The consideration may be large or small, but it is always lurking there from man to woman, unless she is absurdly rich. Even then, rich women prefer men with more money than they have.

Men get confused because women instinctively continue to lash for resources, even when you have given them more resources than they can handle. Affection is weighed as carefully as gold.

Women rarely if ever approach men for sex. You may ask why? Because the person who makes the first approach and risks rejection is in the inferior negotiating position. That, by universal biologic agreement, should always be the man, who does not bear the biologic burden of pregnancy, all fantasy fiction about sexually aggressive women to the contrary.

Sexually aggressive women exist, but they are unicorns. For men, there is no aphrodisiac more powerful than money, power, and resources.

It's always hilarious when you hear these soap opera rants from women saying they want 'complete honesty', when the whole mating ritual is based on biological camouflage, deception, diversion and negotiation from the get go. If a woman claims she wants honesty, it is because she regards you as stupid enough to sucker punch yourself into enraging her. Forgiveness is in direct proportion to the resources you pile at her feet.

The 'shit test' is a test for your persistence and also chases you away until you come back humbled with better resources to offer. You have to be a better bower bird.

Patrick says

The article just strikes me as another attempt to undermine family formation.

Traditional families are power against the oligarchy, and the oligarchy doesn't like that.

Click bait written by people with gender studies degrees, or just total fags.

... they realized they each had a “desire to see the other lost in pleasure with another person,”

and

He occasionally feels insecure about others giving her something he can’t, but he reminds himself how much he likes to see her enjoy hooking up with other people—an experience known as “compersion.”

Cuckold propaganda? Seems like many of these scenarios the article described were more female-dominant / male beta rationalizing.

Ceffer says

Women rarely if ever approach men for sex.

they do, but usually it is away from home, such as in vacation spots. Don't miss vacationing in Mediterranean when you are 20...

Bd6r says

Ceffer says

Women rarely if ever approach men for sex.

they do, but usually it is away from home, such as in vacation spots. Don't miss vacationing in Mediterranean when you are 20...

Agreed or when they've been drinking. I can attest that they wanna shag hard when they're away from home and/or drunk.

I didn’t read the article, but more grist for the mill herewith.

I talked with several females about the subject of marriage and explained that today only broke or very rich guys get married. I said that guys are “on strike” after the abuse they take from females and the media calling us names and ads which make us look like idiots.

I was just talking to a girl here in Baja Sur Mexico who told her friends that she was my “novia”.
I advised her that she would be expected to conform to standards of behavior she might find difficult.
She drinks too much beer with her girlfriends or sister when they visit; I said I don’t like it.
(They consume 18 beers between them, 9 each).

I then showed her a picture of a hot girl I know in Florida who “can’t keep a boyfriend” because she gets drunk too often. Sure, she can get laid just like any hot girl can, but the guy’s gone the next day as the sweet breath from the ketones she emits hits his face.

Women have pussy (blackmail) power over a guy until he gets: 1. Money 2. A passport
The guy has to stay in shape and get haircuts, etc but that’s not too difficult.

I love the line from Glengarry Glen Ross: “It’s fuck or walk.”