So something I don’t get. I was single for a long time. I dated a lot but didn’t have relationships. Unlike some assholes, I really didn’t string women along..I was very upfront that I enjoyed my freedom and wasn’t looking for a relationship nor was I open to one, at least until my mid 30’s.
And it was none of anybody’s business. Yeah I shared war stories with my single friends. But I never brought these women around my family. I felt no compulsion or pressure whatsoever to introduce anyone to my dating life. I didn’t bring plus ones to weddings and other social functions because…why the hell would you? Just ruins opportunities to meet other single or otherwise available women.
I don’t understand the need to announce out loud ones sexuality unless it’s for the express need to introduce a long term relationship to family and social circle. It’s not about keeping something buried. It’s about no one needs to know everyone you fuck.
I’m thinking all of these pronouncements are just more attention seeking behavior. It’s not rooted in sexual orientation, discrimination, or anything of the sort. Rather, it’s the “look at me” mental illness.
That's exactly what it is. They have to prove their bona fides as hipsters and jump on the bandwagon. And a lot of mental illness, too. Normal people don't act that way or crave the attention.
According to my college daughter, bisexuals are attracted and aroused by the physical aspects of men and women's bodies, while a pansexual is attracted to and aroused by the personalities of men and women.
I have kinda seen such "pansexual" activity in a bar. A guy gets drunk enough to go home with an ugly girl, just because she has a loose personality.
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That's how the STD's are transmitted.
Vanessa Carlisle
Age: 41
Occupation: Writer and activist
That's pretty much what they all are, nothing really productive.
And it was none of anybody’s business. Yeah I shared war stories with my single friends. But I never brought these women around my family. I felt no compulsion or pressure whatsoever to introduce anyone to my dating life. I didn’t bring plus ones to weddings and other social functions because…why the hell would you? Just ruins opportunities to meet other single or otherwise available women.
I don’t understand the need to announce out loud ones sexuality unless it’s for the express need to introduce a long term relationship to family and social circle. It’s not about keeping something buried. It’s about no one needs to know everyone you fuck.
I’m thinking all of these pronouncements are just more attention seeking behavior. It’s not rooted in sexual orientation, discrimination, or anything of the sort. Rather, it’s the “look at me” mental illness.
That's exactly what it is. They have to prove their bona fides as hipsters and jump on the bandwagon. And a lot of mental illness, too. Normal people don't act that way or crave the attention.
"Look at me and how virtuous I am! I'm not really a loser in life no matter how obvious that seems..."
According to my college daughter, bisexuals are attracted and aroused by the physical aspects of men and women's bodies, while a pansexual is attracted to and aroused by the personalities of men and women.
I have kinda seen such "pansexual" activity in a bar. A guy gets drunk enough to go home with an ugly girl, just because she has a loose personality.
Sorry about your palm...
No problem. All the hair works just as well.
"Gender fluid?"
"Yes, there will be lots of that."
Isn't that what it's supposed to do?