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9 Intersectional Parenting Tips for Parents with Privilege


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2018 Sep 19, 12:17pm   3,302 views  17 comments

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https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/12/intersectional-parenting-tips/

I'd suggest also 100-page questionnaires before hugging or kissing a kid, be it your or your relative's kid.

1. Practice Informed Consent

Tell your child they own their own body – no one is allowed to touch them without their informed consent.

No hugs for relatives, no sitting on Santa’s lap, no kisses for mummy unless they understand what is being asked of them and they want to do it (not just doing it for the sake of being polite).

We talk about informed consent because asking “Do you want to be tickled?” isn’t enough for me as a former sexual violence prevention educator. We get really specific in our house, and we check in a lot.

Tickling another person is great, as long as everyone involved knows exactly where the tickling is happening, is keen on that tickling, and is given every opportunity to stop the tickling if it stops being enjoyable.

I relate informed consent a lot to food. For me, to choose what I’m going to eat, I need to know what it is and I need to know that I can stop when I’ve had my fill.

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1   Bd6r   2018 Sep 19, 12:26pm  

I browsed that wonderful website some more, it is full of gems such as:

Why Healing from Internalized Whiteness Is a Missing Link in White People’s Anti-Racism Work

Sandra draws on over a decade of her own Buddhism-based healing and spiritual journey as a person with multiple marginalized identities, as an organizational leader, and as a human being living in a dehumanizing society.

8 Signs Your Yoga Practice Is Culturally Appropriated – And Why It Matters

7 Reasons Why White People Should Not Wear Black Hairstyles

What You Need to Know About Dating While Mentally Ill: A Guide By Mentally Ill Women

White People: This Is How To Check Your Privilege When Asking People of Color For Their Labor

Here Are 7 Reasons Why Polyamory Is More Difficult When You’re Disabled

3 Ways To Decolonize Your Nonprofit As Told By A Black Queer Feminist Organizer

Sounds like a collection of alt-right jokes mocking the left, but it ain't. They are dead serious.
2   Heraclitusstudent   2018 Sep 19, 12:42pm  

dr6B says
As Told By A Black Queer Feminist Organizer

If she happens to be transgendered and communist, she wins a medal in the on-going victimhood Olympics.
3   HeadSet   2018 Sep 19, 12:43pm  

Hmm. Maybe the proper answer to anyone who preaches to any individual about that individual's "white privilege" should be: "Hey, did you just assume my race?"
4   MisdemeanorRebel   2018 Sep 19, 12:44pm  

dr6B says
Here Are 7 Reasons Why Polyamory Is More Difficult When You’re Disabled


Hahahaha

"Many Swing Clubs don't have ramps and automatic doors, nor are the sex swings handicapped accessible"
5   Heraclitusstudent   2018 Sep 19, 12:45pm  

>"I thought that if I didn’t find it offensive, then why would anyone else?"

I thought no one should get offended if I accidentally bump into them. Since when intentions stop mattering?
6   Bd6r   2018 Sep 19, 12:46pm  

TwoScoopsOfSpaceForce says
Here Are 7 Reasons Why Polyamory Is More Difficult When You’re Disabled


Hahahaha

"Many Swing Clubs don't have ramps and automatic doors, nor are the sex swings handicapped accessible"

That one wins the day
8   Automan Empire   2018 Sep 19, 3:55pm  

dr6B says

Sounds like a collection of alt-right jokes mocking the left, but it ain't. They are dead serious.


I scrolled through the site too... you aren't kidding. These are not mainstream liberals, they're extreme wack jobs obviously cloistered in local bubbles. This kind of nonsense doesn't fly in 99% of the world; a discovery made every year when newly minted college graduates take their first "real job" with seasoned grownups in the general off-campus population.

TwoScoopsOfSpaceForce says
nor are the sex swings handicapped accessible"


Reminds me of an old non-PC joke.

A guy in a rough neighborhood joins a gang. One of the initiations is, he has to have sex with a quadriplegic girl in the neighborhood.

So, he goes to the address at the appointed time and is invited in. The girl welcomes him and instructs him to get a swing from the closet, hang it in the door frame, and put her in it naked for sexy times. They have sex in this manner, then he cleans her up, puts her to bed, and kisses her goodbye.

He feels guilty afterward, so a few days later he knocks on the door; her Father answers. He begins a stammered apology, but Dad interrupts him. "Don't worry, son... my daughter is lonely and loves the attention from these boys. She was giddy with joy after your visit, so actually I want to thank you."

The young man is taken aback, but they spend a few more minutes conversing pleasantly then he says his good-byes.

As he's walking away, the Father calls out, "Besides, all the other little bastards just leave her swinging!"
9   Heraclitusstudent   2018 Sep 19, 4:19pm  

Automan Empire says
This kind of nonsense doesn't fly in 99% of the world; a discovery made every year when newly minted college graduates take their first "real job" with seasoned grownups in the general off-campus population.


Unless it's a job at the New York Times.
10   Bd6r   2018 Sep 19, 4:23pm  

Heraclitusstudent says
Unless it's a job at the New York Times.

In that case just being an extreme whack-job is not enough. Applicant needs to be a racist and sexist as well.
11   lostand confused   2018 Sep 19, 7:58pm  

dr6B says
What You Need to Know About Dating While Mentally Ill: A Guide By Mentally Ill Women


Huh-Feminazis guide to dating???



dr6B says
White People: This Is How To Check Your Privilege When Asking People of Color For Their Labor


What if you are a person of color with white people reporting up to you???????
12   FortWayne   2018 Sep 19, 8:01pm  

Everyday left is more and more insane
13   Bd6r   2018 Sep 20, 7:49am  

lostand confused says
What if you are a person of color with white people reporting up to you???????

That can not happen because RACISM.
14   NDrLoR   2018 Sep 20, 9:02am  

Heraclitusstudent says
If she happens to be transgendered and communist, she wins a medal
And most significantly that medal is the Order of Lenin.
15   FortWayne   2018 Sep 20, 9:13am  

P N Dr Lo R says
Heraclitusstudent says
If she happens to be transgendered and communist, she wins a medal
And most significantly that medal is the Order of Lenin.


I'm pretty sure soviet communists would just throw someone like that into gulag. Even those people weren't that stupidly insane like modern liberals.
16   Rin   2018 Sep 20, 10:58am  

We need sex robots and then, men and women can officially live apart. Now that's some real Apartheid, not this nonsense.

And then, women can wear strap-on dildos and pleasure each other.
17   CBOEtrader   2018 Sep 20, 11:03am  

Heraclitusstudent says
dr6B says
As Told By A Black Queer Feminist Organizer

If she happens to be transgendered and communist, she wins a medal in the on-going victimhood Olympics.


Would also need to be Muslim and a rape survivor.

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