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Friends Husband Out of Control


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2021 Dec 13, 8:39am   590 views  16 comments

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My wife's friends husband won't let her visit friends or family. He's made her stop all contact with them unless it's by phone or computer. He reads and censors her comments on social media. He makes her feel like she's going crazy for thinking that he's controlling her and that she's being ungrateful, after all he's only doing this because of how much he cares for her. He doesn't want her going to the gym anymore so she doesn't go. He doesn't want her going to work anymore, so she doesn't go. He told her, you gotta rely on me for income. He doesn't let her go out anymore unless it's for necessities, and when she does he makes sure he has people in place to guilt trip her about it. He wants her to have a medical procedure done and if she does she'll have more freedoms. And to top it all off he's always telling her he's only doing this because he cares.

https://www.reddit.com/r/conspiracy/comments/reur9k/controlling_husband/?source=patrick.net

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1   🎂 Tenpoundbass   2021 Dec 13, 8:48am  

Propaganda bull shit!

Men don't turn into control freaks, they are control freaks from the start. All of those things described, are things that guys won't let their girlfriend do from the start, if they are control freaks.

Nevermind I read the link, it's a metaphor. I kind of figured that as I read it.
2   NuttBoxer   2021 Dec 13, 9:57am  

Tenpoundbass says
Nevermind I read the link, it's a metaphor. I kind of figured that as I read it.


Took me a minute as I didn't fully open the post, but as I started re-reading it hit me.

Powerful illustration of how stories can be used to change someone's worldview.
3   Ceffer   2021 Dec 13, 1:06pm  

Sounds like the good ole days of sex relations. Keep her penned up and spurting rug rats.
4   GNL   2021 Dec 13, 2:17pm  

The husband is the government. We are the controlled wife.
5   BayArea   2021 Dec 13, 8:05pm  

What do you plan to do about it besides post on patnet?
6   NuttBoxer   2021 Dec 13, 10:53pm  

Not sure who you're asking, but that's pretty much it. I don't use any other social media, so this is the largest audience I can reach. Most of my friends and family don't care/are brainwashed, so I'm pretty selective about what I share with them(want to push, but not alienate). As for myself and my family, we know what's up. We're prepared for collapse, and we won't be taking any shots, ever.
7   Robber Baron Elite Scum   2021 Dec 14, 6:22am  

As long as he is paying all the bills, giving her a decent life like holidays, eating out, shopping ETC and not putting a finger on her or getting violent with her....

He has every god damn fucking right to do this to make sure he is not supporting some useless skank getting fucked by some other dude who gets pregnant and she lies to him, telling him it's his child....

So fuck anyone else who disagrees or thinks I am some woman hater.... lol go fuck yourself...

The biggest hate towards a man is betraying him by getting have a child with some other dude and than lying to him by telling him it's his.

That is the biggest form of hate and fraud that any woman can do to a man. It's betrayal at the same time.

So fuck your shaming on hating women who do this. They deserve they hate since they shot the first bullet. I'm proud of hating such women back.....

So fuck you politically correct women-worshipping faggots.
8   joshuatrio   2021 Dec 14, 7:05am  

Dude sounds insecure.
9   WookieMan   2021 Dec 14, 7:25am  

joshuatrio says
Dude sounds insecure.

The scenario is extreme. That said, my wife travels a ton for work and works in mostly a male industry but she has a network of girls that are with her and a few guys I 1,000% trust, which is rare. There are 5 or so times though at a conference where a guy was probably over served and over stepped boundaries, usually verbal. It does cause me anxiety when she travels.

Usually I'm not there, but I was in Phoenix one time at a conference and was close to going to jail. This was a random guy at a non-rented out bar for the conference. I'm downtown Phoenix having smokes and sushi with the founders of the Tuft and Needle mattress company out of no where. Get a call from her crying, some random dick tried to kiss and lick her face. I run over to the bar she is at and get into the fuckers face. She had friends with her, and not knocking anyone here at patnet, but they're nerdy engineers (infrastructure). They pushed him away at least. Fortunately the guy just left after I made a rather large scene. Probably on probation or something is my guess why he walked away. I was ready to throw punches.

It also helps my wife makes more than everyone she's trying to sell to, so she's not a gold digger and most of the guys are 50 and from a guys perspective (mine) not very attractive or interesting. She just knows how to sell to nerds. Ultimately if you don't trust a wife or woman you chose, you picked wrong. The more you handcuff them, the more they'll push you away. That guys loss in the OP if he truly loves the woman. She will leave.
10   NuttBoxer   2021 Dec 14, 9:25am  

Last three comments, did you guys read the full post in the reddit link? You know this is a metaphor right?
11   FuckTheMainstreamMedia   2021 Dec 14, 9:44am  

@wookie

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cedar_Rapids_(film)
12   clambo   2021 Dec 14, 11:09am  

The government wants to be variously the controlling husband or controlling father.
13   zzyzzx   2021 Dec 14, 11:35am  

WineHorror1 says
The husband is the government. We are the controlled wife.


clambo says
The government wants to be variously the controlling husband or controlling father.


Only took me a few seconds to conclude this.
14   Patrick   2021 Dec 14, 11:55am  

Right, it's not about a real man.

It's about the government and what they are doing to us all with the jab.
15   WookieMan   2021 Dec 14, 12:45pm  

Patrick says
Right, it's not about a real man.

It's about the government and what they are doing to us all with the jab.

It's mostly men that run government for what it's worth. Mostly men that failed in the lady game. Bitter losers that now wield power.
16   HeadSet   2021 Dec 14, 2:07pm  

WookieMan says
Mostly men that failed in the lady game. Bitter losers that now wield power.

I dunno. From what I have observed, powerful men usually have their pick of women.

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